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Old 05-26-2015, 05:11 PM
 
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I don't get it. If women dress sexy only for themselves and for nobody else, why don't they wear that sexy outfit 24/7 at home, in bed, church, work, etc.
Good question. Makes you wonder.
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Old 05-26-2015, 05:17 PM
 
Location: Polynesia
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The whole "headlights" conversation is unfair. Unless you wear a Nurse Diesel bra, cold weather happens. lol
Agree. It's really difficult to keep those things in stealth mode, even in warm climates. Grocery stores and buildings running their AC are so cold sometimes, it takes me and my body parts by surprise.
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Old 05-26-2015, 05:18 PM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Absolutely. I eat that **** right up. But the thing is, I'm not donning a miniskirt and heels, or painted-on yoga pants in order to get noticed. I don't seek out attention that way, and it would be a real FU to my husband if I did.
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Lol! Mrs. Garrett!

Yeah, it's just basic logic. Morality doesn't even have to enter into it. It's just that if you do this, it leads to this. A leads to B.

I admit it, it's nice to get noticed by men. Men like to get noticed by women. I don't think there's anything wrong with that (lol, Seinfeld). But I just could never have my girls all out, miniskirt on, high heels.... because I'd just feel like.... well, like a *****. lol! You can dress sexy, but having EVERYTHING all out on display at once just looks... like a display. Like advertising. If someone wants to dress that way, I don't care. But you just can't have it both ways, is all.
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Old 05-26-2015, 05:22 PM
 
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Absolutely. I eat that **** right up. But the thing is, I'm not donning a miniskirt and heels, or painted-on yoga pants in order to get noticed. I don't seek out attention that way, and it would be a real FU to my husband if I did.
Its nice you are respectful of your husband like that. You are not only thinking for yourself but also for your husband. If I see a woman trying to be all sexy and provocative it actually makes me not want to see her. There are many other ways a woman can look attractive without being skanky.
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Old 05-26-2015, 05:22 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Agree. It's really difficult to keep those things in stealth mode, even in warm climates. Grocery stores and buildings running their AC are so cold sometimes, it takes me and my body parts by surprise.
Lol! Do they look like this? ---->

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Absolutely. I eat that **** right up. But the thing is, I'm not donning a miniskirt and heels, or painted-on yoga pants in order to get noticed. I don't seek out attention that way, and it would be a real FU to my husband if I did.
Lol! This thread is funnier than it should be.
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Old 05-26-2015, 05:23 PM
 
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Good question. Makes you wonder.
I have a number of friends who DO dress that way at home, by themselves.
I don't because I hate bras and shoes and hose and all that happy crappy.
But some women definitely do.
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Old 05-26-2015, 05:43 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Its nice you are respectful of your husband like that. You are not only thinking for yourself but also for your husband. If I see a woman trying to be all sexy and provocative it actually makes me not want to see her. There are many other ways a woman can look attractive without being skanky.
Theyre called leggings



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Old 05-26-2015, 06:08 PM
 
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Fatties and s**ts should both be shamed, if you ask me, so I don't see your point.
Why? How does what someone else chooses to do with their own body affect you?

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I have a number of friends who DO dress that way at home, by themselves.
Same here, myself included.
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Old 05-26-2015, 06:14 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Lol! Mrs. Garrett!

Yeah, it's just basic logic. Morality doesn't even have to enter into it. It's just that if you do this, it leads to this. A leads to B.

I admit it, it's nice to get noticed by men. Men like to get noticed by women. I don't think there's anything wrong with that (lol, Seinfeld). But I just could never have my girls all out, miniskirt on, high heels.... because I'd just feel like.... well, like a *****. lol! You can dress sexy, but having EVERYTHING all out on display at once just looks... like a display. Like advertising. If someone wants to dress that way, I don't care. But you just can't have it both ways, is all.

By the way, to be fair/equal, lol, I feel the same way when a "built" guy walks around in public without a shirt on. (Not like at the beach or wherever, obviously.) I mean, do you really need us all to look at you that badly? lol Again, it's not that I'm morally offended; it just looks like a plea for attention.
Gotta agree. As I heard long ago, be revealing or a bit daring at the top, or at the bottom, but never all at once.

A girl I am familiar with. She asks for advice online alot. She always talks about how curvy she is, and that she dresses to show off her body. But then he acts upset that the guys she usually meets only want sex from her, or try to have sex right away with her. If she's dressing to show off her body, naturally she's gonna attract the guys who want her body. Seems like basic logic. Though some young girls don't learn that lesson. Going on how she acts, she wants a relationship. But many times, good men who want serious girlfriends, don't want a woman dressed like a ****. Or, very least who seems to be trying to show off. They want a nicely dressed woman that looks good without being over the top, as if saying "Look at me!" or "I'm for sale!", or better yet "Come have a sample! It's free!"

I mentioned that in my post. I wouldn't be interested in a guy who walked around in public with no shirt. Seems like attention-seeking. And if not that, he's just trifling. As if it will kill him to put on a simple shirt before leaving the house.
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Old 05-27-2015, 12:27 PM
 
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I have a number of friends who DO dress that way at home, by themselves.
I don't because I hate bras and shoes and hose and all that happy crappy.
But some women definitely do.
So they are at home cleaning, cooking, watering their plants, watching TV, or whatever wearing mini skirts, showing cleavage, high heels, red lipstick, etc. All sexy at home just chilling?
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