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View Poll Results: How often? pick which comes closest.
Guy - Never 2 1.22%
Guy - a few times a yr 4 2.44%
Guy - monthly 2 1.22%
guy - weekly 11 6.71%
Guy - few times a week 36 21.95%
Guy - Daily 37 22.56%
Gal - Never 1 0.61%
Gal - a few times a yr 3 1.83%
Gal - monthly 7 4.27%
Gal - weekly 12 7.32%
Gal - few times a week 34 20.73%
Gal - Daily 15 9.15%
Voters: 164. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 01-22-2008, 12:49 PM
 
Location: Arizona, The American Southwest
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CrystalBlue - The question is somewhat vague becuase you mentioned "A relationship", but is that a companionship/courting type of relationship or marriage?

I know I'm being a party spoiler here, but I stick to the Christian principles of intimacy, and I don't believe in pre-marital sex. It is unfortunate that the majority of people base their relationships on the sexual aspects, rather than more important things. No wonder our divorce rate is high.

And to answer the question, there is no ideal frequency, I'd be just as happy being intimate with my wife once a year, as I would be a few times a week, it's irrelevant.

 
Old 01-22-2008, 01:25 PM
 
Location: Welland, Ontario Canada
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allows?

heck, most of us look forward to it!?

you wanna what?

lets go!!!!

Really! That's nice to hear. Unfortunately, my ex-husband and the father of my daughter and the couple of other men I was involved with in my lifetime must have been from another planet then because I was rejected lots when I tried to start anything. So much so, that my fiance now has had to reassure me that it's okay to want and enjoy sex.
 
Old 01-22-2008, 01:27 PM
 
Location: Welland, Ontario Canada
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okay, I don't know what happened there but my computer hiccuped and now their are two responses. Maybe I'm from another planet lol
 
Old 01-22-2008, 01:31 PM
 
Location: Tampa
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Originally Posted by Bansidhbabe View Post
allows?


Really! That's nice to hear. Unfortunately, my ex-husband and the father of my daughter and the couple of other men I was involved with in my lifetime must have been from another planet then because I was rejected lots when I tried to start anything. So much so, that my fiance now has had to reassure me that it's okay to want and enjoy sex.
well, they were crazy!

welcome to us normals
 
Old 01-22-2008, 01:32 PM
 
Location: Tampa
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Originally Posted by Magnum Mike View Post
CrystalBlue - The question is somewhat vague becuase you mentioned "A relationship", but is that a companionship/courting type of relationship or marriage?

I know I'm being a party spoiler here, but I stick to the Christian principles of intimacy, and I don't believe in pre-marital sex. It is unfortunate that the majority of people base their relationships on the sexual aspects, rather than more important things. No wonder our divorce rate is high.

And to answer the question, there is no ideal frequency, I'd be just as happy being intimate with my wife once a year, as I would be a few times a week, it's irrelevant.
if thats the only time you'd be active, thats your choice.
 
Old 01-22-2008, 02:30 PM
 
Location: San Fernando Valley, CA
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I'm 25 and use to want it daily. Now that I ended a 2 year relationship...I've become real lazy when it comes to sexual activities. My last partner was a virgin and very boring...so I got use to it. It has been a good six months and I've been with three different girls, but I can't get back into the friskiness I once had. lol
I'm busy and am only bale to hook up on weekends now. So basically twice a week.

It's like a chore almost. *sad, I know*
 
Old 01-31-2008, 10:15 PM
 
Location: FL
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Originally Posted by KevK View Post
The older you get, the less interesed you are. When I was 16 I wanted it hourly. When I was 20 to 30, daily. 30 to 40, weekly. Now, monthly.
I will assume you're male... It's opposite for females...
(The reason for always being with younger guys! )

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Originally Posted by austinsmom
Well, my hubby is much happier with those now as I did finally gain some up top for a change.
Ummm...?
This is not physically possible. (naturally anyway...)
 
Old 01-31-2008, 10:41 PM
 
Location: Heartland Florida
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I have not found anyone I would want to have sex with yet!
 
Old 02-01-2008, 12:26 AM
 
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Originally Posted by crystalblue View Post
if you were in a good relationship, how often would you like to bump nasties?
Daily, no questions asked

Its a stress reliever and good for you all around.
 
Old 02-01-2008, 06:59 AM
 
Location: Who knows
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I voted for a few times a week, which is what I am getting now. I've been married for almost one year and have been with hubby for two years now and in spite of being married....we still have a good amount of sex...hasn't really changed. Yes, I know things supposedly change regarding sex and marriage but I guess it depends on the couple. I plan on keeping my sex life like this even when we have kids and I know hubby feels the same way.
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