Being ignored/unappreciated - good reason for leaving? (partner, friendship, relations)
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Im sure you'll be having discussions with her....realize that moving out doesnt necessarily signify the end. Maybe things can still work out. At least this way she realizes you are serious now and maybe she will take you a little more seriously and realize you do what you say. Good luck.
Well guys and gals...this thread is offically dead...like my relationship. Amazing how interested she is and how much free time she has to call, text and email me after I am gone. She "didn't think I would leave" and of course, it's ALL MY FAULT because i didn't "understand" her job. WTF? Should be an intersting weekend when she gets back. I am headed to the lake to lay low.
Well guys and gals...this thread is offically dead...like my relationship. Amazing how interested she is and how much free time she has to call, text and email me after I am gone. She "didn't think I would leave" and of course, it's ALL MY FAULT because i didn't "understand" her job. WTF? Should be an intersting weekend when she gets back. I am headed to the lake to lay low.
Wow. Well, that just says it all, doesn't it? Now that she perceives a crisis, she suddenly has time to call/text/email! She had her chance, but blew it off. It sounds like you're feeling better about it all, though, now that you've made the decision and have extricated yourself from that situation. Enjoy your weekend!
Wow. Well, that just says it all, doesn't it? Now that she perceives a crisis, she suddenly has time to call/text/email! She had her chance, but blew it off. It sounds like you're feeling better about it all, though, now that you've made the decision and have extricated yourself from that situation. Enjoy your weekend!
Yep. Nobody is that busy. It's all about priorities. Looks like trying to save her relationship has suddenly become a bigger priority than chit chatting with clients in a bar til 2am.
Yep. Nobody is that busy. It's all about priorities. Looks like trying to save her relationship has suddenly become a bigger priority than chit chatting with clients in a bar til 2am.
All he ever really asked of her was to let him know she arrived safely. How can you be too busy to do that? Or to text, "Busy day! Gonna shower, and crash. G'night" ? But then she's been lying to him, too, so she has no one to blame but herself for that.
Good for you OP! Can't wait to hear how she deals with it. Hope you had a great weekend at the lake.
Well, actually not so great. I was with friends and spent a good deal of time wishing the ex was along, even though I know I am better off. I would be lying if I said I didn't miss her. As far as how she's dealing with it....NOT GOOD. It was not hard to figure out where I went as a hasty exit on my part pretty much meant I went to live with a single pal in a big divorce house. She showed up. Naturally, it is all my fault. She didn't change, she is just like she always was...blah blah blah. I changed. I am a baby, I expect too much, I am immature, on and on. Went from in my face yelling at me to boo hoo what a waste of our time, why am I so mean?
This doesn't make it any easier. Discussion ended just like always...she's right, I'm wrong. Only difference is I don't have to endure it all night llike before. It ended as she angrily drove away.
Well, actually not so great. I was with friends and spent a good deal of time wishing the ex was along, even though I know I am better off. I would be lying if I said I didn't miss her. As far as how she's dealing with it....NOT GOOD. It was not hard to figure out where I went as a hasty exit on my part pretty much meant I went to live with a single pal in a big divorce house. She showed up. Naturally, it is all my fault. She didn't change, she is just like she always was...blah blah blah. I changed. I am a baby, I expect too much, I am immature, on and on. Went from in my face yelling at me to boo hoo what a waste of our time, why am I so mean?
This doesn't make it any easier. Discussion ended just like always...she's right, I'm wrong. Only difference is I don't have to endure it all night llike before. It ended as she angrily drove away.
OP, it is possible to find someone whose company you enjoy, who communicates with you, and makes you feel like you're important to them. And not just when they're yelling at you, lol! There are people who would not only text you that they arrived safely, but would actually pick up the phone ( Crazy, I know!) and call you at the end of their day, if only to say it was a long day, and they're tired, but gee, it's great to hear your voice.
You don't need to put up with cr@p in order to get the good stuff. You can find a better match.
OP, you will grieve the end of this relationship and then realize the break up was for the best. Good luck to you.
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