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Old 05-22-2015, 09:42 AM
 
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It always puzzled me how men in the past could know their children were theirs before DNA testing came around. Especially in non-conventional situations.

For example, my grandfather had 2 out of wedlock sons in the 1960s and he assumed their paternity. How did he know they were really his? I doubt any man sound of mind would do that these days without a paternity test.

I never mentioned this to him out of respect but it's really hard to grasp in my head.

 
Old 05-22-2015, 10:06 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Big ego - he thought he was the only one!
 
Old 05-22-2015, 10:14 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Go far enough back and you have family standing around the consummation.
 
Old 05-22-2015, 10:18 AM
 
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Old 05-22-2015, 10:18 AM
 
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Originally Posted by StriderJ View Post
It always puzzled me how men in the past could know their children were theirs before DNA testing came around. Especially in non-conventional situations.

For example, my grandfather had 2 out of wedlock sons in the 1960s and he assumed their paternity. How did he know they were really his? I doubt any man sound of mind would do that these days without a paternity test.

I never mentioned this to him out of respect but it's really hard to grasp in my head.
Men were probably more honorable back then and did not care if the child was biologically theirs.
 
Old 05-22-2015, 10:19 AM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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You beat the woman until the truth comes out?
 
Old 05-22-2015, 10:35 AM
 
Location: Terra
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Men were probably more honorable back then and did not care if the child was biologically theirs.
So men who don't want to raise children that aren't there aren't honorable? LOLLLLLLLLL ok then.
 
Old 05-22-2015, 10:39 AM
 
Location: NoVa
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How do men know now?

In a relationship, whether they be married or just together, people do not just get DNA testing done whenever they have a child.

That is just not how it works....
 
Old 05-22-2015, 10:43 AM
 
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How do men know now?

In a relationship, whether they be married or just together, people do not just get DNA testing done whenever they have a child.

That is just not how it works....
Really? Seems very common in my area. Actually DNA testing is the first thing done when you apply for child support.
 
Old 05-22-2015, 10:43 AM
 
Location: NYC
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It always puzzled me how men in the past could know their children were theirs before DNA testing came around. Especially in non-conventional situations.

For example, my grandfather had 2 out of wedlock sons in the 1960s and he assumed their paternity. How did he know they were really his? I doubt any man sound of mind would do that these days without a paternity test.

I never mentioned this to him out of respect but it's really hard to grasp in my head.
Maybe because the mother told him they were his? How do you trust what anyone says without a lie detector test?
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