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Thank you all for your advices, and yes, we already set the date for the weekend, so we are gonna see each other on saturday. I'm going to try to hold her hands and "see how she reacts" if I get a positive reaction then I'll go for the kiss. I'm not worried or overthinking about this or anything, but hell I dont want to look like I want things fast or anything like that. I dont want to give her a bad impression of me.
Most girls I hear don't want to kiss a guy on the first date/meet. They have no idea where his mouth has been before. I don't blame those that feel this way because it's true. She doesn't know you from the cashier at the local McDonald's and you want her to let you plant lips all willy nilly?
Why are you all telling him he should have done it on the first date and setting him up to be embarrassed. Second date is definitely more acceptable and you have a better shot. Definitely go on the second
Most girls I hear don't want to kiss a guy on the first date/meet. They have no idea where his mouth has been before. I don't blame those that feel this way because it's true. She doesn't know you from the cashier at the local McDonald's and you want her to let you plant lips all willy nilly?
Why are you all telling him he should have done it on the first date and setting him up to be embarrassed. Second date is definitely more acceptable and you have a better shot. Definitely go on the second
??? All of this changes by the second date? Is this a facetious post? lol
??? All of this changes by the second date? Is this a facetious post? lol
Of course it does. By the second date, the girl as received the lab results from the specimens she took on the first date, because the black light she shone on his lips on the first date isn't concrete proof he doesn't in fact, have cooties.
when i was a youngster like in 2nd/3rd grade i had this female science teacher that would scream down students
i distinctly remember her after yelling out one of my classmates her telling them "i despise weakness" (keep in mind we are kids and i wasnt even familiar with the term "despise")
i always remembered that incident and knew never to show weakness with a woman
woman despise menw ith no confidence or "weak" men
i said all that to say this... stop acting like a lil ole you know what
a woman is not going to penalize a man for being a man
the worst that can happen is that she shuts you down... if you come weak then all you will do is cause her to post a thread on c-d "why doesnt he try to kiss me...yada yada"
Go for the kiss at the appropriate moment in an appropriate place,she'll let you know real quick whether shes ok with the move, If she resists with the body language dont fret leave the ball in her court for future outings,dont let the fact she doesnt want to kiss on the second date be a relationship deal breaker as she sounds like she could become a good friend.
Ultimately the kiss and the sex aspects of the relationship will come naturally,mother nature designed it that way.
Of course it does. By the second date, the girl as received the lab results from the specimens she took on the first date, because the black light she shone on his lips on the first date isn't concrete proof he doesn't in fact, have cooties.
lol...yeah, I've never been concerned about where someone's mouth has been. It was just more of an issue of the first date actually being my first time meeting the guy (online dating), but I was always ready for a full on makeout session on the second date if I actually found him attractive.
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