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Old 01-19-2008, 07:58 PM
 
Location: Old Town Alexandria
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everything is going smoothly (for me -lol)

Ever break a few Fenders and other guitars?- if you paid for them, its quite satisfying when stbx leaves them at your house
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Old 01-19-2008, 08:10 PM
 
Location: Old Town Alexandria
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lol- Robyn love ya!!! we still have to have a party- I have been off CD a bit (u can see why-lol)))!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!
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Old 01-19-2008, 09:26 PM
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Location: MA/NH
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Ever break a few Fenders and other guitars?- if you paid for them, its quite satisfying when stbx leaves them at your house
Selling them would have been better, or you could habe given them free to me... hopefully, none of the guitars were vintage ones.
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Old 01-19-2008, 09:46 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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I did a few things like that when my ex left a few things here.

He begged me for this painting that was SO special to him. I took it too work and left it there, I worked for a company at the time that was security card access only, I put it behind my file cabinets.

I shredded his photo collection of his extensive travels including the negatives. It was VERY satisfying.
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Old 01-19-2008, 10:41 PM
 
Location: the show-me state
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I did a few things like that when my ex left a few things here.

He begged me for this painting that was SO special to him. I took it too work and left it there, I worked for a company at the time that was security card access only, I put it behind my file cabinets.

I shredded his photo collection of his extensive travels including the negatives. It was VERY satisfying.
Oh my god, I'm fixing to get married, and you girls are SCARING the hell out of me!!!
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Old 01-19-2008, 11:36 PM
 
Location: TN
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My ex and I lived on a military base when we separated. We'd had a dispute and he was ordered to stay in the dorms for 3 days. During this time, I sold all of our furniture to a neighbor two doors down. We shuffled it out the back door. He came home to nothing more than a pile of trash bags.

Looking back, I realize how stupid and immature that was. I was only 16(yes, 16) at the time. I destroyed things I could've given to our daughter now(letters and such). Although I thought I felt better at the time, I really should've just walked away and left it alone.

Plus, karma does have a way of catching up to you
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Old 01-20-2008, 06:04 AM
 
Location: Back in NYS
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everything is going smoothly (for me -lol)

Ever break a few Fenders and other guitars?- if you paid for them, its quite satisfying when stbx leaves them at your house
Dreamofmonterey - Glad things are going smoothly for you - FINALLY!!!!! I never broke or destroyed anything belonging to my ex, probably because I was the one to leave<g>.....However, once I had my final divorce decree, I did throw an "I'm finally FREEEEEEEEEEE" party and had a great time
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Old 01-20-2008, 06:08 AM
 
Location: The #1 sunshine state, Arizona.
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Oh my god, I'm fixing to get married, and you girls are SCARING the hell out of me!!!
Don't worry Dennis, not all women are spiteful and vindictive. Congratulations!
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Old 01-20-2008, 06:30 AM
 
Location: Boonies of Georgia ~~~~ nuttier than a squirrel turd !
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everything is going smoothly (for me -lol)

Ever break a few Fenders and other guitars?- if you paid for them, its quite satisfying when stbx leaves them at your house
So happy to hear things are finally going well for you !
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Old 01-20-2008, 06:57 AM
 
Location: In the sunshine on a ship with a plank
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There is a SWEET justice in doing something destructive to something that belongs to someone who values material things more than human beings who love him.

I'll never forget how good it sounded when I flattened the tires on my ex's car----- so satisfying that I did all four of them.

Spiteful and vindictive are strong words but I can say this- if I was spiteful and vindictive for wrecking something of his, what names would you call him after cheating on me, beating me, emotionally abusing me, and thinking every moment of it was amusing?

Congrats, Dreams! I'm proud of you.
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