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I can't understand why people hate other people for no reason. Some people don't even have much and people be hating hard on them. Then you have people that work hard to get what they want & some people can't stand that , so they hate hard. Why ?? With all this HATE , it's hard to even operate correctly because you might end up in a situation that you ain't ready for. This type of behavior makes me ask ... Why do people hate so hard ?? Why ??
I can't understand why people hate other people for no reason. Some people don't even have much and people be hating hard on them. Then you have people that work hard to get what they want & some people can't stand that , so they hate hard. Why ?? With all this HATE , it's hard to even operate correctly because you might end up in a situation that you ain't ready for. This type of behavior makes me ask ... Why do people hate so hard ?? Why ??
Put this in the Psychology forum where it belongs.
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Originally Posted by ohiogirl22
What does this have to do to New YOrk? Maybe this should be under non-romantic relationships.
You are right. All New Yorkers are such friendly and courteous and downright mankind-loving people that this couldnt possibly have a thing to do with NYC.
They are very liberal too. Rather than living in specific 'like-minded' enclaves butted up against each other, it is an amazingly diversified place, where various cultures come together, praise each other, and end the evening holding hands around a big bonfire in Central Park while singing Kumbayah.
Nope, this cant possibly have a thing to do with NYC. Ut-uh. No way.
Just look at the response to seeing this thread. Rather than criticize, people read it with an open mind, and reply honestly, and lovingly from deep-down in their huge hearts.
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Originally Posted by musicgrrl
That hate usually comes from a place of insecurity. Jealous people are usually very very insecure about themselves.
Thanks for the 'on topic' reply. Its nice to see one person reply positively - and, its not even my thread.
often narcissistic people hate like this, its not representative of a particular area, its the person. actually with narcissists its considered envy, not hate. when i was 20 i was accepted to a state school here in NY which i eventually failed out of. i learned that my friend was secretly envious of me for having been accepted to the school then became contemptious of me for having failed out of it. from then on his attitude toward me was haughty, snotty, condescending, competitive. eventually i kicked him to the curb permanently. i had done absolutely nothing to him to make him treat me that way. it was his problem
often narcissistic people hate like this, its not representative of a particular area, its the person. actually with narcissists its considered envy, not hate. when i was 20 i was accepted to a state school here in NY which i eventually failed out of. i learned that my friend was secretly envious of me for having been accepted to the school then became contemptious of me for having failed out of it. from then on his attitude toward me was haughty, snotty, condescending, competitive. eventually i kicked him to the curb permanently. i had done absolutely nothing to him to make him treat me that way. it was his problem
This is a very common feature in east asian cultures.
In contrast and in my observation, I think that latios are least envious ppl therefore they always get along happily well together. Each weekend I go to any NYC parks, there are tons and tons of latino families gathering together playing, grilling, chatting and enjoying life. You don't see that so common in other cultures.
I can't understand why people hate other people for no reason. Some people don't even have much and people be hating hard on them. Then you have people that work hard to get what they want & some people can't stand that , so they hate hard. Why ?? With all this HATE , it's hard to even operate correctly because you might end up in a situation that you ain't ready for. This type of behavior makes me ask ... Why do people hate so hard ?? Why ??
Being hateful is one of the animal instincts that takes generations of civilizing cultures to remove. Some ppl were born to be extreme haters and they even hate themselves every now and then. Some other ppl learn to deal with it by consciously reminding themselves not to hate and they succeed at it. The recent mass killer in SC may have developed his hate from excessive exposure to racial prejudices that he heard and read over and over again. Accept hate as it exists because you cannot do anything about it.
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