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He mostly came so that we could be together and because I was living here, otherwise he'd have gone to a different university, university was a part of it though.
I am comfortable providing him support, it's just that as I've failed university it's very difficult to find a job, hell I don't even know if I'd be able to find one.
I have aspirations, but that's because this year has made me feel like I have to - I want to get out of this situation and better us both through becoming a surveyor. BUT, HELL what matters the most to me is that I LOVE my boyfriend tremendously, I want a life with him, he is the one, I don't want to lose him over anything even this career plan and my own happiness and achievements.
I've told him my plans, he responded well and was supportive, but he was mostly worrying about his university plans and how I've confused him even more now i.e does he take a gap year and attend a different university with me next year or attend university straight away in a city he doesn't like with the possibility of me leaving to become a surveyor at a university in a different country.
He's hardly communicating with me right now after all of this and is seperating himself. It's horrible. Maybe I should have just kept quiet, and put him first.
I guess this just makes things even trickier.
I don't know how the F*** to deal with this.
Please respond.
Why should we respond? You don't respond to actual advice.
WHY do you love him? He does nothing to show that he loves you.
Read your previous threads. You've gotten enough advice to choke a horse.
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