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Had a first date last Friday which I thought went grest since we seemed to hit it off right away. We met for ice cream and them we walked to the waterfront and talked in front of the water. Then we went to get pizza and took another walk and ended up inside her car. We talked in her for 40 minutes and I didn't make a move bur she still seemed interested. After the date when she arrived home she called me and said she had a nice time on the voice-mail. I returned her call and she answered and we talked briefly and said good night. Then I texted her sunday asking how her weekend was and she asked me the same
Then all of a sudden last night she asked was i still up and I told her yes. So that's when I was going to set up a second date. All of a sudden she said that she needed to tell me something and said she didn't feel a spark on Friday and wanted to be honest with me. She said she stI'll wants to be my friend because I'm cool but she didn't feel a romantic connection.
Stunned because usually when someone is not interested in a second date they ignore you and don't reply back. Anyone else agree this sounds weird the way she did this?
You've been friends zoned for not kissing her in the car.
No, if she wasn't feeling you before, kissing her wouldn't have changed her mind. You'd have just gotten the "I had a nice time, but..." talk much earlier.
No, if she wasn't feeling you before, kissing her wouldn't have changed her mind. You'd have just gotten the "I had a nice time, but..." talk much earlier.
Without reading all 20+ pages of replies, I think she is a cool chic.
She let you know she is not romantically interested in you before 2nd date.
There might be someone in her life that she could not let go yet.
Then you would be here posting that you had a great date and asking "why is she ignoring me?"....
I agree. I tell people the truth too. I would rather know the truth than be left hanging.
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She is a cool chic...
