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Old 06-23-2015, 06:05 PM
 
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This is probably weird for you People, but this is how things are. I will make it as short as possible
I am 26 years old now, but when i was 19 i think, i dated one girl, she was in to me, because i am really tall, i am 6.5. And then she insisted on having sex, which is normal. We were at her place, we started removing our cloths and when i was fully naked she started laughing at me. lol Because my package down there is pathetic. Oh what an horrible feeling that was, the shame i felt, i thought the only way out was to murder her or kill my self at once. Thankfully i just took my cloths and run. Still, when i remember it, i kick my leg, too much shame. This shame probably spreads at you when you read it. Then i gave an oath that i will never ever have anything to do with any woman, and that i will avoid any unneeded contact with their kind.
I am 26 now, i finished my studies and got a nice job that i like, and all was fine, but there is this one girl, we work for the same company, she has been chasing me for around a year. She was even sending me flowers and baskets filled with chocolate and other stuff. I should have known that was the clear sign that she is a freak. She is pretty and everything. And then somehow through my family and friends she forced me in to daring. Half of them started to think that i am gay anyway, lol. But i really enjoyed her company and i enjoyed that someone is interested in me, so i went to a few dates, thinking i am going to break up before the kiss, face to face, but she kissed me and i don't know, i liked it, so i continued, a mistake.
But i knew this thing must lead to sex, she tried to fool me and drag me to the bed, somehow i have avoided it so far. She even spent one night at my place, oh the moves i had to make to keep away from her.
And then i decided to stop this silliness and i told her that i want this relationship to end. Then she went all mad, we were in a café, she first got some kind of a panic attack, then she threatened to kill herself, she broke the glass and she did poke her hand. Everyone was looking at us, i panicked and told her that everything is okay. Then she calmed down. She is on a trip for few days, but when she returns, she made it clear that she plans for us "to have fun". I don't want to date her, because she is crazy, and i especially don't want to have fun with her. I know i made mistake for even entering this "relationship", but she tricked me. She asked me out in front of my parents, who bothered me every day to find a girl.
She is obsessed with me, whenever we are together she keeps holding me all the time, she has my picture on her phone, few times i have actually realized that she is playing with my face, like i am an baby. She is more and more attached by the hour. How do i end this? And she managed to charm everyone i know. Everyone thinks how she is perfect, she is good to me, too good. But i know that she is crazy and plus i don't plan to have sex ever. And all this is out of control. Do i dump her and let her cut herself or how do you guys dump crazy woman?

 
Old 06-23-2015, 06:12 PM
 
Location: Sugarmill Woods , FL
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RUN!, run far, run fast, and don't look back!
 
Old 06-23-2015, 06:13 PM
 
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If she's that crazy, the sex will probably be amazing.
 
Old 06-23-2015, 06:14 PM
 
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Run where? She lives 10 minutes walk away from my place.
 
Old 06-23-2015, 06:14 PM
 
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Restraining order. And block her, change your phone number, do whatever you have to do. And consider this a huge learning experience.

Mod cut.

Last edited by PJSaturn; 06-23-2015 at 07:32 PM.. Reason: Off-topic.
 
Old 06-23-2015, 06:19 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Shes a crazy freak because she sent you flowers/chocolates and manipulating into sex? yea, OK

This story is not at all weird for CD.
 
Old 06-23-2015, 06:21 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Originally Posted by CapsChick View Post
If she's that crazy, the sex will probably be amazing.
Yup! the crazy ones give great

 
Old 06-23-2015, 06:22 PM
 
Location: Sugarmill Woods , FL
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Run where? She lives 10 minutes walk away from my place.
MOVE! or learn to love her as she is!
 
Old 06-23-2015, 06:24 PM
 
Location: Pa
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She ain't crazy you just insane.
 
Old 06-23-2015, 06:28 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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She ain't crazy you just insane.
Sounds like hes making excuses not to be in a relationship/having sex because hes insecure about his pecker.
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