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that's the thing. that he says he loves me I'm his life but with me when he has sex with me it's feelings but if he has sex with another girl it's just sex. I tell him he isn't ready for a relationship and he says he is. I honestly don't know what to do. we don't want to brake up but I don't like the idea of him sleeping around or having a three sum. I don't like sharing what is mine and he understands that but he keeps saying sorry for putting me threw this hell.
he says that the reason he told me is so he won't cheat in the future. that he wants something so he won't think like that anymore he doesn't want to think about it anymore let alone do it !
Yeah, all guys have the urge I'm sure. I'm sure DH sees a hot girl and the animal brain is "NAIL THAT!"
It's different if he were to come to me and tell me "Hey, I have an urge to sleep around." That's a prelude to an action.
OP, he says it's "only sex." But it's not only sex to YOU. I'd send him away with a permanent hall pass, and you move on to someone who is more monogamy oriented.
But, he was honest.
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My general theory is that men and women who get used to sleeping around and the adventure of new sex partners will have a hard time settling down to one person. Even if they do, my guess is that most will fall off the wagon if the relationship hits some difficult times.
that's the thing. that he says he loves me I'm his life but with me when he has sex with me it's feelings but if he has sex with another girl it's just sex. I tell him he isn't ready for a relationship and he says he is. I honestly don't know what to do. we don't want to brake up but I don't like the idea of him sleeping around or having a three sum. I don't like sharing what is mine and he understands that but he keeps saying sorry for putting me threw this hell.
Talk is cheap. Actions speak louder than words.
Good grief, its BREAK, not brake, and its THROUGH, not threw.
Grammar is going to hell in a handbasket.
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That's a prelude to an action.