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Old 05-29-2015, 07:07 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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for sure i know I'm not comfortable with him doing it.
So this ^^ is the only thing you know for sure.

Learn to listen to yourself. Tell him thanks for being honest, but you are not interested in sharing him.

(For the record, all guys do NOT think this way.)

Also, in this case it's BREAK, not BRAKE!!! Time for you to BREAK up. This is a deal-BREAKer.

 
Old 05-29-2015, 07:08 PM
 
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he use to sleep around before he met me. he told me that in the beginning of our relationship he just wanted to sleep with me he never planned on falling in love with me and he doesn't want to lose me.
 
Old 05-29-2015, 07:10 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Maybe cause I'm older and been with the same woman for a long time, but if at 8 months he's saying this stuff it isn't going to get much better, I'm sorry OP, I'd pack it up and move on.

8 months isn't all that huge of an investment, you'll be a bit upset for a while, but I'm sure you'd move on just fine.

Don't sit there and let any man tell you something like that... I mean he can say it, but you shouldn't take it like some little lap dog.

Find a guy who craves and wants you, not someone who appears to be treating you like a convenience.

Best luck to you OP.

 
Old 05-29-2015, 07:11 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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he use to sleep around before he met me. he told me that in the beginning of our relationship he just wanted to sleep with me he never planned on falling in love with me and he doesn't want to lose me.
Then he needs to choose. Or you do.
 
Old 05-29-2015, 07:11 PM
 
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I have told him and I made him choose either he stays with me and is loyal or we can BREAK up and he gets to sleep around all he wants but he loses me.

he took a couple of minutes to respond but he choose to stay with me.
 
Old 05-29-2015, 07:12 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I have told him and I made him choose either he stays with me and is loyal or we can BREAK up and he gets to sleep around all he wants but he loses me.

he took a couple of minutes to respond but he choose to stay with me.
So do you trust him to be faithful?
 
Old 05-29-2015, 07:13 PM
 
Location: Somewhere Out West
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break break break break
Hey I was going to post that






 
Old 05-29-2015, 07:14 PM
 
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I do trust him because he isn't actually the cheating type. he's had a bunch of opportunitys to cheat on me and he's has said it a couple of times. I just trust him the same way he trust me not to sleep around and stuff which I wouldn't do either way plus he always says
 
Old 05-29-2015, 07:16 PM
 
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plus he always says he rather break up with me than cheat on me and make me go threw hell
 
Old 05-29-2015, 07:18 PM
 
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Your young move on...Hugs & love
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