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Love doesn't just happen.
You have to make the choice to love another.
Somewhere along the lines people have lost what love really is and took the feelings associated with it as what love was. Blame movies, books and media...I don't really know why the concept is so hard for some to define.
I feel bad for you. I can't believe you have never felt love but then again that's possible depending on your "issues." Some people have been hurt early in life or experienced heartbreak or witnessed their parents relationship end thus deciding they will not be open to love or the possibility of being hurt.
Unfortunately your story is just what I warn other people happens when you spend all your time having good times, deciding to close the door on love, or women that have been hurt so they only seek casual sex partners being dishonest about their desire for love. Before you know it the decades pass and there you are having dinner alone while entering the senior citizen stage of life. The sad part is if you had experienced love perhaps been married you would have your wife at your side at your retirement party, someone to travel with, and someone to eat your meals with at night. Someone to share the birth of your grandchild.....together. Someone to go to your doctors appointments with you. Someone to share your life experiences with and someone there by your side, someone that loves you for you. (yes, I'm a hopeless romantic).
It's never too late to find a companion, perhaps join a travel club OR better yet your life has a purpose. Fulfill that purpose, the past is the past and you can not mourn it for this is useless. You do have the future and talking to someone to better understand yourself sounds like a step in the right direction. Good luck.
I think love is just such a vague term sometimes, especially in English. There's a lot between giddy infatuation and the deep agape selfless love one feels for children, siblings, parents, close friends, and for some, everyone. I've had crushes, but beyond that, I sometimes find it hard to distinguish agape type love and anything else.
With as ugly as I am, I wished I couldn't feel love.
Oh Froggy, you are not even a little bit ugly. You are kinda geeky looking, I'll grant you that but the right lady will find you irresistible and you've just got to find her. I am not just saying this. Dumb girls are not for you.
With as ugly as I am, I wished I couldn't feel love.
Shave you head, shave you beard and leave stubble. Get a Harley and a new attitude. Dude you will get a girl.
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