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I've been kind of freaked out since last week and don't know what to do.
I'm in the best relationship of my life with a wonderful guy who proposed (and I accepted!) last summer.
Last week I got an email from an address I don't recognize. The title said "fun times" and had a short video clip and a screen capture bunch of photos all in one big photo. I freaked. It was from years ago when I went on holiday to another country for a beach vacation with girlfriends. Terrible, misguided story short, one night we were all basically drunk at a club and two of us participated in some lame contest where we sort of Mod cut. to some also drunk guys who were on a stage. We were sooo mortified afterward that we all promised to take that night's activities with us to the grave!!
I wouldn't normally open vids from unknowns but the photo freaked me out so I did. It was the video version of the big photo.
I don't know how to feel or act, especially around my fiance. What if he gets sent the same thing?!?!
What should I do or how should I behave around him?
Last edited by PJSaturn; 03-04-2019 at 08:08 PM..
Reason: Not PG-13.
He’s probably done stupid things too. Don’t even think about it, unless he brings it up. Then just look surprised, and say: “Oh that! Many years before I met you. You’re turn next.”
OK I'll bite. You were in a foreign country on vacation, some stranger videoed you doing something, he never learned your name, nor can you be identified in any way other than footage of you taken on stage. But many years later, he tracked you down via...email?
So a stranger from another country tracked down you private email after all these years? Come on. It came from your girlfriends. And if i am reading between the lines right, if the mod cut what i think it said, i would hope the BF never found out. I would not want to be with someone that did that o a stage in public.
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