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Wearing the ring or other type of commitment symbol but when saying I am married, some men (and I assume some women but I don't attract too much lesbians)
does not stop flirting or hitting on but continues it.
Why being married is not a fine reason to leave a person alone? "No thanks, I am married" and some men still goes on.
Could we start a new international style and believe if a married person says no thanks, I am married.
I think some people (men and women) see the ring as two things. 1: A challenge (basically they are playing a game to see if they can get you in bed) or 2: A way of getting a non-committed relationship (figure they can cheat with you... get the sex... get stuff from you.. and not have to put up with being serious and if you don't do what they want, there is always blackmail/threaten to tell your spouse).
Always be cautious of people who purposely go after married people. Their interest is selfish and self serving.
I think some people (men and women) see the ring as two things. 1: A challenge (basically they are playing a game to see if they can get you in bed) or 2: A way of getting a non-committed relationship (figure they can cheat with you... get the sex... get stuff from you.. and not have to put up with being serious and if you don't do what they want, there is always blackmail/threaten to tell your spouse).
Always be cautious of people who purposely go after married people. Their interest is selfish and self serving.
Yes, a challenge seem to be addiction for some people. The more you tell you are loyal the more they seem to like to try if that is true Uncomfortable.
Wearing the ring or other type of commitment symbol but when saying I am married, some men (and I assume some women but I don't attract too much lesbians)
does not stop flirting or hitting on but continues it.
Why being married is not a fine reason to leave a person alone? "No thanks, I am married" and some men still goes on.
Could we start a new international style and believe if a married person says no thanks, I am married.
Why people don't honor other peoples marriages?
Nobody has to honor my marriage but my husband and myself.
If someone is bothering me and I want them to leave me alone, it shouldn't matter if I'm married or not. "No, thanks," should be sufficient, without needing the "No, thanks, I'm married," disclaimer. The fact that I'm saying "back off" should be what holds weight, not the caveat of "because I'm married." It doesn't matter. I said back off.
Nobody has to honor my marriage but my husband and myself.
If someone is bothering me and I want them to leave me alone, it shouldn't matter if I'm married or not. "No, thanks," should be sufficient, without needing the "No, thanks, I'm married," disclaimer. The fact that I'm saying "back off" should be what holds weight, not the caveat of "because I'm married." It doesn't matter. I said back off.
True, but I find it is nicer toward a guy to say I am married than back off or something mean that is insulting a person itself. Some people are sensitive for rejections.
I think some people (men and women) see the ring as two things. 1: A challenge (basically they are playing a game to see if they can get you in bed) or 2: A way of getting a non-committed relationship (figure they can cheat with you... get the sex... get stuff from you.. and not have to put up with being serious and if you don't do what they want, there is always blackmail/threaten to tell your spouse).
Always be cautious of people who purposely go after married people. Their interest is selfish and self serving.
Yep.
It's called narcissism. They don't care about the damage; they only care about instant gratification.
Being married isn't necessarily a deterrent for everyone.
Some married people who are looking to cheat actually seek out other married people to cheat with; there's less likelihood of getting caught because both cheaters have something to lose, and therefore are more likely to keep their mouths shut.
It's called narcissism. They don't care about the damage; they only care about instant gratification.
Yes, someone who claimed to be my friend would not care if my marriage would be gone. I sincerely did not care of him in romantic matter. But his behaviour show he would not care and therefore would not be a friend after all.
Just for the kicks of ego boost, it is hard to believe some people really do things like that.
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Uncomfortable.
