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She was older than me. I was 21 she 22. She had just graduated college, we got married when she was starting to show around 5 months. I don't think that's "very young" to be having kids my mom was 16 and never went through what my ex is going through. It's hard for me to block her because part of me loves her and is waiting for the day she is normal again. I know that's not gonna happen but I miss her a lot, I am not going to see her for the aforementioned reasons (STDS, crazy behavior, confusing emotions) but I am tempted too.
I have left the decision for my son to see her up to my son. I wouldn't ever keep him away from her if he wanted to see his mama. He doesn't right now though. He is very angry at her because his last contact with her she asked him to ask me to give him money "for clothes" to give to her.
I have dated other women for short periods, but to be honest it was nothing serious mostly physical. It wouldn't be fair for me to enter into any kind of emotional commitment with another lady since I still have feelings for my ex.
I have dated other women for short periods, but to be honest it was nothing serious mostly physical. It wouldn't be fair for me to enter into any kind of emotional commitment with another lady since I still have feelings for my ex.
You still have feelings for her why?
I am amazed at the crap people will put up with lol
She has no interest in her own son.
She fu ck ed with tons of (random) guys - do you really want her back and wonder with how many guys she slept?
Do you want to go somewhere with her and every time a guy looks into your direction you wonder if he was one of them?
She might have sold herself to some weird porn/bukkake/whatever sex parties who get filmed and shown online.
She probably had group sex with nasty, ugly, horny guys and no protection.
She will ask you for money as soon as you talk to her and will suck you dry in that regards.
She is no longer the girl you fell in love with. She is a train wreck now and you need to focus on yourself and your son.
If she was that messed up, how did you get so screwed in your divorce? Having to buy her a house and give her money?
I didn't get screwed at all. I got my son. Me and her made a deal that if I bought her a home she would sign away her rights to my son. It was a small price to pay to not have to go back and forth with custody battles and face the prospect of him being forced to be in her care.
She has no interest in her own son.
She fu ck ed with tons of (random) guys - do you really want her back and wonder with how many guys she slept?
Do you want to go somewhere with her and every time a guy looks into your direction you wonder if he was one of them?
She might have sold herself to some weird porn/bukkake/whatever sex parties who get filmed and shown online.
She probably had group sex with nasty, ugly, horny guys and no protection.
She will ask you for money as soon as you talk to her and will suck you dry in that regards.
She is no longer the girl you fell in love with. She is a train wreck now and you need to focus on yourself and your son.
Another vote for block the number. But to cover your butt (to not be accused of alienation) I think you need to leave at least some avenue for to communicate because of the son (even without her having parental rights). But don't make it easy. Send her a registered letter telling her that her lawyer can contact you with anything regarding your son. Since the lawyer will need to be paid, you can be sure that only serious communication will come though.
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