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Clearly not, but playing house, leading him on? Chicks act so innocent.
While I feel sorry for the OP (I know what unrequited feelings are like), I wouldn't say she lead him on. They both agreed to the arrangement, it was a clear FWB arrangement, and he wanted to change it. But she wasn't interested, she just wanted to keep the status quo they already agreed to. There was never a promise of anything more. Usually there isn't with FWB, that's the whole point.
But for his own sake and sanity, the OP should move out and forget her as best he can. I'd also recommend not having FWB situations any more. Some people can detach their emotions from sex, others can't, they get emotionally attached to the other person.
Face it, if she likes being sexually promiscuous, then she will probably always like being sexually promiscuous, and will never change. So just don't start out associating at all with these kinds of women. Find someone real, serious, who works hard at building a life, future, career, family etc., and plans ahead so that what she is building doesn't blow up in her face.
I indicated in my previous post that it was completely in the mind of the OP
But I would also like to mention (it was late, I was half asleep) that moving out and placing distance is a viable option if you can't come to terms with the living arrangement/emotional feelings.
I've had past friends who I had deep emotional connections... I wouldn't call it love... at least I never progressed to admitting that to myself. Over time, I was able to come to terms with it and never revealed my feelings to that friend. It does happen but it was a process and at times painful... especially if they were dating someone. However, I did value my friendship that much to keep at it. On the other hand, I didn't live with them either nor sleep with them.... that adds a whole level of complexity.
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