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I'm falling for this girl but I can't seem to trust her, there's this gut feeling that tells me she's lying to me but I have no proof. I know the whole fake profile thing -which has been deleted - is a little crazy but ever since this guy added her on Facebook all I think about is them being together. They also happen to live 25 min walking distance from each other. I have to drive 40 mins to an hour to see her.
It's just so easy for them to meet up and keep it secret. I like her too much but I have no clue how to get past this, truth is I'm not happy. As cheesy and corny and cliche as this sounds, when I'm with her I forget about all these doubts but as soon as we part ways the uncertainty just grows on me and because she's so reserved and independent it always feels like I'm checking on her and trying to control her whenever I ask her what she's up to.
No he was un covering shady behavier, trust is earned not given for granted.
Being friends with people on Facebook is not shady behavior.
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Originally Posted by Dr_ink
I'm falling for this girl but I can't seem to trust her, there's this gut feeling that tells me she's lying to me but I have no proof. I know the whole fake profile thing -which has been deleted - is a little crazy but ever since this guy added her on Facebook all I think about is them being together. They also happen to live 25 min walking distance from each other. I have to drive 40 mins to an hour to see her.
It's just so easy for them to meet up and keep it secret. I like her too much but I have no clue how to get past this, truth is I'm not happy. As cheesy and corny and cliche as this sounds, when I'm with her I forget about all these doubts but as soon as we part ways the uncertainty just grows on me and because she's so reserved and independent it always feels like I'm checking on her and trying to control her whenever I ask her what she's up to.
This is your issue. There's always going to be someone who lives closer, some friend on Facebook, some person you are suspicious of, etc. You could try being honest with her about your fears and see how that goes but maybe you just aren't ready to be in a relationship.
Being friends with people on Facebook is not shady behavior.
This is your issue. There's always going to be someone who lives closer, some friend on Facebook, some person you are suspicious of, etc. You could try being honest with her about your fears and see how that goes but maybe you just aren't ready to be in a relationship.
Actually it sounds like she is not ready to be in a relationship. like grandmother used to say "if you want to act like your single, stay single.
I take less crap than most on here, but really.. she wasn't even commenting on the pics.
Plus she knew the guy already.
And thats ok you have different expectations, maybe I'm getting old or I'm just old fashioned but most of my facebook friends know when I am in a relationship because I am never logged on anymore. and my female friends know when I am dating because I am not hanging out with them anymore except when we are hooked up at the same time and do couples things together.
Its all about respect.
Why do you spent your time on creating fake FB profiles and stalking the guy and the girl? Why don't you spend your time on texting with your girlfriend, calling her or chatting with her on FB?
Instead of creating suspicion in wasting your energy just increase the contact between the two of you.
I'm falling for this girl but I can't seem to trust her, there's this gut feeling that tells me she's lying to me but I have no proof. I know the whole fake profile thing -which has been deleted - is a little crazy but ever since this guy added her on Facebook all I think about is them being together. They also happen to live 25 min walking distance from each other. I have to drive 40 mins to an hour to see her.
It's just so easy for them to meet up and keep it secret. I like her too much but I have no clue how to get past this, truth is I'm not happy. As cheesy and corny and cliche as this sounds, when I'm with her I forget about all these doubts but as soon as we part ways the uncertainty just grows on me and because she's so reserved and independent it always feels like I'm checking on her and trying to control her whenever I ask her what she's up to.
You don't like her too much. You have trust and control issues that existed long before you knew her. This entire thread is based on something you created in your head, a delusion you choose to keep feeding into. This relationship is already done, so just end it and move on.
And I don't believe for one second that you deleted that FB profile.
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