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I honestly did not start dating until I was 22 years of age(I was shy). Over the past three years, I have met plenty of women. I went out on dates, had sex(not a manwhore etc.). I am decent looking male, good looking enough to have met an attractive woman at a bar and ending up at her place. This does not always happen of course.
Online dating wise, on sites like OKC, I don't do too bad and before Tinder introduced the swiped limit, I got a good amount of interest. I have gone/talk with out with several women yet no spark. I have only had feelings for three girls in my life. One when I was 17, 21 and now 25.
I meet these women and they just don't give me those feelings that three previous woman gave me. The one I met at 25 is the perfect woman for me but we live in different state. She is 21, tall and very attractive, we can talk about the most random things to sex. We are comfortable with each other and our conversations never get boring. No other woman has ever come close to what her and I have.
I am going to be 26, to be honest with you, I dont tell women about never being in one anymore.
At 25 years old you should not concern yourself with this yet. You have plenty of time to find that special person down the road. Until you find her, enjoy friends and just don't make work your only life.
I think I would be honored to be someones first girlfriend. At least it is not a bad thing. I am a woman quite a same age than you, had two short relationships. The other one has had multiple girlfriends and it did not bother me at first but then I started to feel he was comparing me to them and was not 100% over from his ex, and it felt really bad. It would be much nicer to feel more special.
What are relationships anymore? I'm older than you, OP, but most of my most intimate relationships have been with people I never had sex with. Knowing that I can have long-term, trusting, give-and-take friendships with others is what has always given me confidence to be in a romantic relationship.
You may never have had a girlfriend, but do you have good friends? Good interactions with your coworkers? If yes then you have relationships in your life. If no, then maybe work on that.
Also, maybe be more proactive in striking up conversations with girls without the aid of technology. Online dating and tinder are great, but why not chat with the girl behind you in line the next time you are buying coffee or at the supermarket? It's as easy as, "can you believe how long this line is?"
25 and no relationship is nothing to feel sad about. I'm sure that plenty of people would love to permanently strike some relationships that they had before 25 from the record. Good luck.
Sounds like your are a socially well adjusted individual who can meet women, get dates, etc.
The fact you have not found the right one where the chemistry is there, and felt mutually to build more of a relationship on is nothing to have concerns about, or anxiety about what others might think of that at 25.
Keep meeting women and dating. Eventually, the feeling will be right to pursue more with someone, and they will feel the same about you.
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