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What if he showed interest initially, but then I was in a relationship and did not return the feelings. I since broke up with my ex boyfriend, and now I actually like the other guy. The problem is that the other guy keeps changing his schedule and whereabouts so I have no way of finding him anymore. The only times I ran into him was by fate, but even then, I didn't know it was him because he keeps changing his looks too, so I didn't realize it was him until moments later.
It's almost like he is avoiding me. This is driving me insane as I have never been so obsessed with a stranger before. The thing that bothers me the most is that my feelings for this guy literally changed somewhere between the breakup and when the guy started to disappear.
I would let this one go, but I can't. It's consumed me like crazy until I see him again and I find out for sure that he's no longer interested or some other direct message. The only things I know about him is that he goes to the same gym and he lives in my neighborhood. Exactly where? I don't know. I feel like stalking him is the only way I'll be able to run into him, but even if I wanted to stalk him, I can't either because I have no idea where he is. Never met anyone who's so good at hiding and avoiding.
I chased my husband till he caught me. so yeah, it can be done. But he wasn't AVOIDING me. I think you have something else going on you need to consider first, like WHY you're suddenly obsessed.
If he is literally going out of his way to avoid you, then you really have no choice but to move on.
It is very possible he is probably dating other girls. Don't get caught up in a movie fantasy, thinking you two are fated to be together when really this is probably just due to your ego and insecurities.
Let it go and do something productive with yourself.
What if he showed interest initially, but then I was in a relationship and did not return the feelings. I since broke up with my ex boyfriend, and now I actually like the other guy. The problem is that the other guy keeps changing his schedule and whereabouts so I have no way of finding him anymore. The only times I ran into him was by fate, but even then, I didn't know it was him because he keeps changing his looks too, so I didn't realize it was him until moments later.
It's almost like he is avoiding me. This is driving me insane as I have never been so obsessed with a stranger before. The thing that bothers me the most is that my feelings for this guy literally changed somewhere between the breakup and when the guy started to disappear.
I would let this one go, but I can't. It's consumed me like crazy until I see him again and I find out for sure that he's no longer interested or some other direct message. The only things I know about him is that he goes to the same gym and he lives in my neighborhood. Exactly where? I don't know. I feel like stalking him is the only way I'll be able to run into him, but even if I wanted to stalk him, I can't either because I have no idea where he is. Never met anyone who's so good at hiding and avoiding.
OP:
Yes, you have to let him go.
Yes, you have to let go of your obsession
Yes, he is avoiding you for reason
Yes, you need to Get The Message regarding his avoiding you
i have been chased by women before. sometimes because they wanted to be with me, other times, well lets just say i got away with my skin intact
As have I, brother, but I attribute it to the fact that there is a certain group of simple-minded women out there who cannot fathom the idea of a man not reacting to her 'alluring gaze'. It seriously screws with some women.
As for the OP--
Avoiding you? Check your ego, he had a life before he met you, and I'm certain he has one currently. Unless you're one of these magical women who produces crisp $100 bills when she gets 'excited', you're not special, luv.
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so yeah, it can be done. But he wasn't AVOIDING me. I think you have something else going on you need to consider first, like WHY you're suddenly obsessed.
