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Interesting article about all the things a man has to do so his wife can give him permission to have sex. Yes, women do need all those things mentioned. At the end of the article only one women asked what if it was the other way around, which is rare of course compared to men who complain about it, and the response she got was that the man could be cheating, the man could be into porn, etc. This is what I find interesting. If the wife doesn't give her husband permission to have sex with her its all his fault. He needs to put some effort and work to protect her feelings, romance her, buy her stuff, take her out on vacations, etc. and maybe she will give him permission. In the rare cases, compared to women, where a husband doesn't feel like having sex with her wife then...its his fault too?
The guy writes the article just fine and I do agree but I was expecting a different response to that only woman who asked about a reverse scenario. Maybe something like "that man doesn't want to have sex because she humiliates him, she nags him, she has rejected him for a long time, she got lazy and fat and doesn't care about looking pretty for him anymore just like when they were dating, she has hurt her husband's feelings, he feels she uses him for his money, etc.
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Originally Posted by Jman136
Good point! We have been married 3 years, and no kids. Dated for 7 prior to that, and the intimacy was definitely better prior to the marriage. It's just been really frustrating lately.
I will attempt to talk to her again, maybe we can start taking more mini vacations and what not.
As a guy, there's a lot of work/effort to put in to have sex but it will be worth it if that's what you want. Did you talk to her already? How did it go?
It isn't sinking into you that erotica, is also a fall back option, and women overwhelmingly consume erotica over men.
Erotica, but also, hey, wait until Magic Mike XXL opens. We'll see how low-libido women are. The success of the first one pretty much put the lie to "women aren't visual," too.
Interesting article about all the things a man has to do so his wife can give him permission to have sex.
That you think in terms of "permission" tells me you don't have the first inkling about sex in a healthy marriage or relationship. The way you describe it, sex is something a man does to a woman, not shares with a woman. Given the number of times you have said "married women don't like sex" on here, as though you can speak for anyone else's wife but your own, at least now I understand where that statement comes from: A warped view of sex in the first place.
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Originally Posted by lifeexplorer
Unfortunately the list of women's needs is about 10 miles long and getting longer by the second, virtually impossible to satisfy.
That you think in terms of "permission" tells me you don't have the first inkling about sex in a healthy marriage or relationship. The way you describe it, sex is something a man does to a woman, not shares with a woman. Given the number of times you have said "married women don't like sex" on here, as though you can speak for anyone else's wife but your own, at least now I understand where that statement comes from: A warped view of sex in the first place.
Speak for yourself.
LOL.
Prove me wrong then.
It's like a never ending nightmare. I'll be here till the end of time writing down all the things women demand from men. I am not even joking.
Have you ever met a woman, who is satisfied, when her spouse just does a limited amount of things?
That woman would be a dead woman as her spouse would only need to do one thing to satisfy her - bury her. :-) Think about it, she can't complain about her dress, shoes, makeup, cleanness of her last shower/bath, funeral arrangement, the voice of the eulogy deliverer, the organization of the eulogy and who and what were and were not mentioned in the eulogy..., yes, it's impossible to satisfy a woman.
It's like a never ending nightmare. I'll be here till the end of time writing down all the things women demand from men. I am not even joking.
Have you ever met a woman, who is satisfied, when her spouse just does a limited amount of things?
That woman would be a dead woman as her spouse would only need to do one thing to satisfy her - bury her. :-) Think about it, she can't complain about her dress, shoes, makeup, cleanness of her last shower/bath, funeral arrangement, the voice of the eulogy deliverer, the organization of the eulogy and who and what were and were not mentioned in the eulogy..., yes, it's impossible to satisfy a woman.
It may be impossible for you - or perhaps it's impossible to satisfy the women that you choose - but some men are fully able to satisfy their women.
It may be impossible for you - or perhaps it's impossible to satisfy the women that you choose - but some men are fully able to satisfy their women.
There aren't no such men. :-) You will NOT find a man who says:"Hey, my girl is super easy. I only need to let her watch sports channel, bring enough money to feed and shelter both of us and sleep with her about 10 times a month, and she's happy as a puppy!"
It's like a never ending nightmare. I'll be here till the end of time writing down all the things women demand from men. I am not even joking.
Have you ever met a woman, who is satisfied, when her spouse just does a limited amount of things?
That woman would be a dead woman as her spouse would only need to do one thing to satisfy her - bury her. :-) Think about it, she can't complain about her dress, shoes, makeup, cleanness of her last shower/bath, funeral arrangement, the voice of the eulogy deliverer, the organization of the eulogy and who and what were and were not mentioned in the eulogy..., yes, it's impossible to satisfy a woman.
I'd settle for equal pay but what the hell do I know?
There aren't no such men. :-) You will NOT find a man who says:"Hey, my girl is super easy. I only need to let her watch sports channel, bring enough money to feed and shelter both of us and sleep with her about 10 times a month, and she's happy as a puppy!"
Good luck finding that man. He doesn't exist.
My husband seems pretty happy. And so am I. Then again, most people actually want to do more for their partner than what you listed.
I'd settle for equal pay but what the hell do I know?
im just a stupid female.
We already have equal pay, particularly in US. No, you won't settle for equal pay. You want equal pay in addition to maternity leave, unable to do lots of physical work, and taking more time off to look after your kids.
Any type of stress can cause both mental and physiological issues. When women are stressed, more cortisol is produced, which can upset the balance of her other hormones... thus the lowered sex drive. Is there something else that's been bothering her?
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That you think in terms of "permission" tells me you don't have the first inkling about sex in a healthy marriage or relationship. The way you describe it, sex is something a man does to a woman, not shares with a woman. Given the number of times you have said "married women don't like sex" on here, as though you can speak for anyone else's wife but your own, at least now I understand where that statement comes from: A warped view of sex in the first place.
