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Wow and she is your friend?
That is pretty damn terrible.
He should be the one to let her know.
Make better choices next time. People like you really **** me off.
Before you start judging me, I feel really bad and I know that I can't blame alcohol or just him, but I definetily think that it's not just my fault. I personally hate cheaters and think that if you can't be with just one person you should be single so I kinda hate myself right mow because I don't want to be that person.
Should we or I tell his girlfriend? Should I try not to see him anymore? Any general thoughts? Unbiased opinions are very welcome. I maybe just needed to get this off my chest because I have no one to talk to about this but you can still tell me what you think.
It doesn't work that way.. Once you choose to air your dirty laundry on a public forum you can't cherry pick the responses. If you really hated cheaters.. You wouldn't be one.
As for telling her... Being the wonderful person that you are I suspect that you motive for telling her would be more for your self interest than hers. You're probably thinking that if she got upset and kicked him to the curb, you'd have a clear shot at taking her spot. How can you call yourself a friend if you knowingly enable him to cheat on his girlfriend? How can you even contemplate going to a party and coming face to face with her, acting like her friend? That's just sick!
It doesn't work that way.. Once you choose to air your dirty laundry on a public forum you can't cherry pick the responses. If you really hated cheaters.. You wouldn't be one.
As for telling her... Being the wonderful person that you are I suspect that you motive for telling her would be more for your self interest than hers. You're probably thinking that if she got upset and kicked him to the curb, you'd have a clear shot at taking her spot. How can you call yourself a friend if you knowingly enable him to cheat on his girlfriend? How can you even contemplate going to a party and coming face to face with her, acting like her friend? That's just sick!
Of course, that's the only reason she would say something. It's not because she hates cheaters lmao
This can be a valuable lesson for you, Melindaa, and the way you'll behave from now on can determine the outcome. His dishonesty it's his problem, so, don't worry about that anymore, and start paying more attention to yourself. This may seem like fun now and that you've got it under control, but it can very well stop being like this for you very soon. You may develop feelings for this guy, it's easier for women to do that than for men, especially when sexual attraction is involved, and while you happily agree to hide what's going on between you two now, this can hurt you a lot in the near future.
Do you know how most stories like this end? When you'll finally sleep with him, because that's what he's really after, you'll fall in love, but he's going to fully concentrate on his girlfriend again (because he got what he wanted) and he'll stop paying any attention to you, and you'll get hurt. Besides, some people will find out, because they always do, and there will be some unpleasant things said about you and maybe other guys who could have an interest in you, will think of approaching you in a less well intended and elegant way. Who knows, you might even get comfortable being the other woman and continue this way, without giving yourself the chance of a healthy positive relationship that could help you grow as a person and a woman and make you happy.
Are this attraction you feel for him and the hidden games you two play worth so much? I doubt it. Be a smart girl, stop any interaction with him, concentrate on other things, other people, and little by little you'll forget about him and you'll spare yourself of hurt, embarrassment and more guilt, while you'll give yourself the opportunity of meeting someone really nice who sees you and treats you as the one and only. Be strong, do the right thing and sacrifice this silly attraction for the real happiness. Learn to take good decisions for yourself and you'll be grateful for it.
I'm an old guy so please tell me what "making out" entails.
Is it kissing....touching certain areas of the body.....limited undressing....lot of clothes removal....close to Sex but none.
I seem to remember a "roll in the hay" was our "making out" or the cats meow as some may have called it.
Making out is a term of American origin, dating back to at least 1949, and is used variously to refer to kissing, petting and necking, but may also refer to non-penetrative sex acts such as heavy petting.
1. You are somewhat friendly with this girl.
2. You know she's with a guy
3. You made out with her guy, knowing full well that if she ever finds out, she would be royally pissed and he would be in deep trouble.
4. You want to tell her that YOU made out with her guy so that she would be royally pissed at you and he would be pissed at you for telling on him.
How screwed up are you, seriously? I would not be surprised that both of them would want to see you seriously hurt after that, and you know what, I don't blame them. People like you should not go unpunished.
Nobody is perfect. Sometimes people make mistakes. And then they learn from them. They don't keep making them and act like it's fine. If he showed any remorse at all - I would say that maybe if be broke up with his girlfriend, there might be something between the two of you. But he's just outright flirting with you and making light of his own situation. This obviously isn't bothering him. He seems to be getting off on it. That's bad news. As for you telling his girlfriend? Yeah - nobody's going to tell you that that is the right thing to do.
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Sorry, but you are " that person"
lmao
