People think I am wrong for dumping him (dating, boyfriend, marriage)
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I was dating a guy from my junior college for like a month.
First problem was his cousin was bullying me because I'm black.
Second problem is that he wants to spend all of our free time together.
Third problem is that he already talking about marriage and children.Note : We are 19 and 21.
Fourth problem is that he is pro PDA and I am anti.
I just think it is not going to work while others said I give up to easily.
What do you think?
I was dating a guy from my junior college for like a month.
First problem was his cousin was bullying me because I'm black.
Second problem is that he wants to spend all of our free time together.
Third problem is that he already talking about marriage and children.Note : We are 19 and 21.
Fourth problem is that he is pro PDA and I am anti.
I just think it is not going to work while others said I give up to easily.
Who cares what other people think. It's your life and not there's. They'll get over it. You made a reasonable decision for you, not the crowd around you. Don't be bothered by 'what they think is best for you two' type of attitude.
Agree with the 1st answer. If you feel the relationship isn't going to work, then it's your call. The only ones effected will you you and your ex.
And his cousin sounds racist, so if you had to deal with racist family on a daily basis, and your boyfriend said nothing, like telling them to at least be respectful in your company, then I wonder about him. Unless he didn't hear, and doesn't know about it, and you didn't want to tell him.
But, that's just me. Do what you feel is best. There's been guys my mother wanted me to date, and she probably thinks I am being too picky. But nothing I can do that the guys she wants me to date, I haven't been attracted to. And in any case, i'd be the one stuck dating them, or being single. It doesn't effect her any.
1) You need to include all relevant info in your first post.
2) It's OK to have standards. It's not OK to be a b*tch about having standards.
Only YOU know what you should do.
Well I cannot edit my first post.
The cousin thing just gets annoying but I put in his place. He lives with cousin and his family. They do not like each at all.
I spend at least two hours a day on working my superheroes stories. He wants spend much time as possible .
I am 95% sure that I do not want children. He wants three. He talk about marriage a couple of times. I do not married anyone until students loans are paid off.
I despised PDA .He wants to hold my hand whenever we in public or kiss me.
What really rethink the relationship is the marriage and baby talk
You should do whatever YOUR guts are telling you is right. Who cares what other people think?!!
Most of them do not like this guy .
I am trying to see if I am at fault.
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