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Originally Posted by YaFace
For those of you defending the OPs actions, have you never been to a strip club? Jeez...
I went to one a few weeks ago but I'm single and didn't have a significant other in front of me for God's sake. While I don't think this should be a major deal, OP had good cause to be upset.
Have to agree. Many women don't like their husband's going to a strip club and grinding on random women. Some even see that as cheating. So I don't blame the OP for being upset.
I guess if you establish early on in relationship that you don't want him going to bachelor parties, or strip clubs, or nights at the bar, etc then I can't judge. Sounds like prison to me, but if someone wants that kind of restrictions on their lives then more power to you. To insinuate its cheating is extreme, but that's your business.
I guess if you establish early on in relationship that you don't want him going to bachelor parties, or strip clubs, or nights at the bar, etc then I can't judge. Sounds like prison to me, but if someone wants that kind of restrictions on their lives then more power to you. To insinuate its cheating is extreme, but that's your business.
Well having kids is restricting, but people still do that lol But for me personally, I can pass on kids.
It's all about finding a match. Some women don't care their partners go to strip clubs. hell some don't care their partners sleep with other people. These people just need to find one another.
Meanwhile, the people who aren't ok with that stuff need to find a partner who understands and feels the same.
I guess if you establish early on in relationship that you don't want him going to bachelor parties, or strip clubs, or nights at the bar, etc then I can't judge. Sounds like prison to me, but if someone wants that kind of restrictions on their lives then more power to you. To insinuate its cheating is extreme, but that's your business.
Not wanting your spouse to go to a strip club doesn't mean that they can't go to a bar. Do you really see a life without strip clubs as a prison sentence? I mean - that's fine. I wouldn't be a good match with someone that viewed not getting lap dances with strippers as a prison sentence.
Strip clubs fascinate me. I've never actually been, so my perception is purely based on what I've heard or seen on TV... but if I were ever to visit one, all I would be able to think about the entire time is how every dude there has a boner. The Mr. went once for a friend's bachelor party. He behaved himself and came home to me (with a visibly shaken demeanor), so no biggie.
Strip clubs fascinate me. I've never actually been, so my perception is purely based on what I've heard or seen on TV... but if I were ever to visit one, all I would be able to think about the entire time is how every dude there has a boner. The Mr. went once for a friend's bachelor party. He behaved himself and came home to me (with a visibly shaken demeanor), so no biggie.
Why was he shaken up? He should have been primed and ready to go when he got home Strippers are basically Fluffers for wives and girl friends
Strip clubs fascinate me. I've never actually been, so my perception is purely based on what I've heard or seen on TV... but if I were ever to visit one, all I would be able to think about the entire time is how every dude there has a boner. The Mr. went once for a friend's bachelor party. He behaved himself and came home to me (with a visibly shaken demeanor), so no biggie.
I went to one once with an ex-boyfriend. The strippers came and hung out with me on their breaks. It was kind of fun. I walked out with a pretty good body image too
Just talk to your husband and tell him how you would like him to handle this in the future. No pun intended.
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While I don't think this should be a major deal, OP had good cause to be upset.
Strippers are basically Fluffers for wives and girl friends
