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View Poll Results: What's most important?
Looks 26 28.26%
Personality 66 71.74%
Voters: 92. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 06-20-2015, 02:59 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Originally Posted by Prince_Frog View Post
This is about as accurate as it's going to get.

If you ain't attractive looking, you don't have a snowball's chance in hell of finding someone.
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Originally Posted by jma501 View Post
This right here^^^^^^.
100% truth.
So, I guess you guys go for looks over personality? Some of us do things differently but we can all only voice our own opinions on what is important to us.
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Old 06-20-2015, 03:05 PM
 
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So, I guess you guys go for looks over personality? Some of us do things differently but we can all only voice our own opinions on what is important to us.
Did you read the responses before you replied because you totally missed the point?
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Old 06-20-2015, 03:07 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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What's most important to you in looking for a future relationship? Looks or Personality? Please explain (to the best of your ability).
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Did you read the responses before you replied because you totally missed the point?
Did you read the OP?
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Old 06-20-2015, 03:13 PM
 
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Did you read the OP?
Go ahead and willfully ignore the posts we were responding to.
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Old 06-20-2015, 03:17 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Go ahead and willfully ignore the posts we were responding to.
The question is what's most important TO YOU. This isn't the thread for talking about how you think everyone else in the world only cares about looks. We are talking about what is most important to US. So instead of talking about how shallow everyone else is - why don't you share what is important to YOU.
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Old 06-20-2015, 03:21 PM
 
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The question is what's most important TO YOU. This isn't the thread for talking about how you think everyone else in the world only cares about looks. We are talking about what is most important to US. So instead of talking about how shallow everyone else is - why don't you share what is important to YOU.
Several people responded this way. Why don't you go antagonize them.
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Old 06-20-2015, 03:24 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Several people responded this way. Why don't you go antagonize them.
Because they were talking about what is most important to THEM. Why can't you just answer the question? I'm not going to try to convince someone that they should change what is most important to them.
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Old 06-20-2015, 03:32 PM
 
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Because they were talking about what is most important to THEM. Why can't you just answer the question? I'm not going to try to convince someone that they should change what is most important to them.
No they weren't and you know it. I am done with your little tirade
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Old 06-20-2015, 03:35 PM
 
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Both are important obviously. But I voted for looks.

I'd rather date several good looking women in a row, looking for one that I click with, than date several unattractive women hoping to find enough chemistry to make me look past the fact that I'm not attracted to them.
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Old 06-20-2015, 03:39 PM
 
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This is about as accurate as it's going to get.

If you ain't attractive looking, you don't have a snowball's chance in hell of finding someone.
I've seen some pretty ugly people find love, so this isn't exactly true.

You quoted someone who stated it's pretty easy to be interesting to someone else. That isn't true. If you're boring, you're boring. Your looks won't change that. I'll take an average guy who can hold his own in a conversation over a beautiful (or handsome in my case) "rock" any day.

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