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Old 06-23-2015, 07:34 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Very true, especially in the United States of America, and possibly even Canada, too if I'm not mistaken. In China, India, Germany, etc, the guys usually do all of the asking. But in the USA, it's the ladies' job to make the first move.
I need to move to China.
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Old 06-23-2015, 08:45 PM
 
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Either the ladies ask the guys, or American nightclubs are off limits to all singles.
In the famous words of indigo Montoya, "I do not think it means what you think it means."

In other words....you are full of bovine excrement.
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Old 07-14-2015, 11:57 PM
 
Location: Fort Myers, Fl
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More often than not, guys who ask the ladies to dance, even if he asks her nicely and he's asking her for the first time in the entire night, are the first to get thrown out of the club.
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Old 07-15-2015, 04:21 AM
 
Location: Canada
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More often than not, guys who ask the ladies to dance, even if he asks her nicely and he's asking her for the first time in the entire night, are the first to get thrown out of the club.
Repeating inane comments doesn't make them the truth.
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Old 07-15-2015, 06:55 AM
 
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More often than not, guys who ask the ladies to dance, even if he asks her nicely and he's asking her for the first time in the entire night, are the first to get thrown out of the club.
Not at all true in the NYC tri state area clubs. There is no rule about clubs that covers all of America, that is just absurd. But overall, I am not a big fan of Americas clubs. I haven't been in one in about five years, but on a regular night, they tended to play everything in a weird rap bit that I hate. Also, there are always more men than women so your chances of actually having a woman to dance with are not that great. I've always already had a date when I went to the club or went with a few couples.

Dance studios also host parties and have a lot of woman. Unfortunately, there you do have to know how to dance, not just jump around waving your hands. That proved too challenging for me despite all the lessons I took.
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Old 07-15-2015, 07:16 AM
 
Location: Pa
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More often than not, guys who ask the ladies to dance, even if he asks her nicely and he's asking her for the first time in the entire night, are the first to get thrown out of the club.
What the heck do you do?

Only saw this when a drunk dude pulled his pants down.lol!
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Old 07-15-2015, 07:33 AM
 
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I get the feeling that explorerman1 is pulling our leg here...

I'm having a hard time taking his posts in this thread seriously. And lol @ "etiquettly" and "earthwise".

In my experience, women have asked me to dance more often than I've asked them. But I've never heard of that being a rule, and I've never heard of any guy being thrown out of a club or bar because he asked a woman to dance (unless he had other obvious issues - e.g. being too pushy, acting creepy, etc.)

If you want to dance, then just dance. Otherwise, don't. Most people don't care...they'll enjoy themselves whether you get on the dance floor or not.
He likes to mess with people.
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Old 07-16-2015, 09:50 AM
 
Location: Philly area, PA
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Never gonna give you up.
Never gonna let you down.
Never gonna run around and desert you...
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