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Old 06-20-2015, 05:38 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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and you married him, knowing all this stuff about him, so you made your choice. Either live with it, or divorce him.

The end.
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Old 06-20-2015, 05:58 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Make a deal, PS4 and you guys do more outdoor activities and he can only play 10 hours per week.

If he doesn't hold up to his end of the deal, he will wake up and the ps4 will be gone and donated.


He sounds annoying, but he's your husband..
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Old 06-20-2015, 06:16 PM
 
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Make a deal, PS4 and you guys do more outdoor activities and he can only play 10 hours per week.

If he doesn't hold up to his end of the deal, he will wake up and the ps4 will be gone and donated.


He sounds annoying, but he's your husband..
He's her husband...not her child....and I think you have the wrong one that sounds annoying.
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Old 06-20-2015, 06:17 PM
 
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He's done this with his ex also. Exact same things.
So why are you surprised at any of this?
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Old 06-20-2015, 06:19 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Agreed with other posters. Not like you didn't know what you were getting. But apparently, you were desperate and settled for him anyway. So, live with it and stop whining.

You can see your whining doesn't make him change, and he's just learned to ignore you and still do as he pleases. So he's fine. If you aren't, deal with it by shutting up about it, or go. He didn't change for his ex, so you won't be special either.
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Old 06-20-2015, 07:05 PM
 
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Are you his mom??? Is he a child??? Am I in an alternate universe?? He has not grown up; yet, nor realized that life needs a healthy balance of work and pleasure. From reading others' posts, you've been complaining about this guy for awhile now. He may never change. What are you going to do then? You can't change him. You're going to continue raising this child and complaining if you remain married to him. Maybe you like the drama.
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Old 06-20-2015, 07:11 PM
 
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I don't understand how there are men who past like 20 still play video games.
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Old 06-20-2015, 07:16 PM
 
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I don't understand how there are men who past like 20 still play video games.
Really?

Because I know several...all of them are pretty cool, well adjusted, successful, and have normal relationships. I'm a female and still play video games at 22. It's really not that out of the ordinary.
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Old 06-20-2015, 07:18 PM
 
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He is your husband, not your child. Quit being controlling or he will kick you to the city curb.
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Old 06-20-2015, 07:20 PM
 
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I don't understand how there are men who past like 20 still play video games.
I'm 26 and I still play them. My wife is also a gamer.
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