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it probably helps that you gave him a heads up you were there...nothing like finding out after the fact that she hit the big O
"um...you what"
"I came"
"um...when"
"just now"
"um...today"
"yeah...you gonna finish"
"nah...do we have any cheetohs"
It doesn't have to be. But with vanilla straights it often is. Especially young, inexperienced ones (at least the more mature and experienced ones are WILLING to talk about it, if a partner brings it up.)
I had a ton of partners, when I was younger, as I've mentioned in other threads (not proud, not ashamed, just don't care either way, stuff happened and it's whatever.) They ranged in age from virgin teenagers to men in their mid-to-upper-twenties. 34 of them to be exact. Almost every interaction got off the ground with similar "makeout" moves leading up to PIV, often with little foreplay, and usually without me getting um...equal satisfaction out of it, physically. There was almost never a conversation about who liked what, and I used to feel shy about "helping out" if I wasn't getting there (afraid he would take it personally, as an accusation that he wasn't good.)
Now, in my 30's, I am NOT shy about that anymore. If a guy is going to get his, I'm gonna get mine. His cooperation is preferred but not required, and I don't care what he thinks about it. Also, I consider a series of dates, a pre-negotiation of what the date and I like and might enjoy together. We are going to have these conversations, several times, before the act itself is even an option on the table.
When you get older, I think, you realize that being honest is worth it...playing games and being unhappy and/or confused just stinks. Ain't nobody got time for that.
Being honest includes having to be honest with yourself, not just the honesty of others
A lot of the troubles of our youth and sex come from having sex when we are not nessarily ready to be doing so. The body is saying go for it, but the mind is saying I have no idea how.
Being young and figuring out sex is rough for any orientation. Not becuase of the acts, but becuase of "us"
It's a progressive learning experience that grows as we do.
Yo. There is already a Battery Operated Boyfriend.
Is Bob a regular of yours, cinder?
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