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But yeah, if you want to find a guy that doesn't want vaginal penetrative sex to be part of his sexual chemistry, you might be hard pressed, though there are straight women that I know that greatly prefer an*l sex and have no issues finding and keeping lovers; and there probably are dudes out there that would be satisfied with getting great BJs too... you just are going to have to kiss and ___ a lot of dudes to find the right one.
Well, no. The whole point is that homosexuals have these conversations before they get naked, after the kiss but before the ____.
Homosexuals don't have a "default." Heteros do, peen in vag. That is a peen-centric way of looking at things, as men are pretty much guaranteed an orgasm from it, whereas women most certainly are not. It goes hand-in-hand with the thinking that sex is over with his orgasm because he is physically no longer able to have intercourse, which is another b.s. way of thinking.
I'm saying what you are saying isn't the real world. Which is why I was asking who you people are picking as partners that would give you the idea it's "all about the dick and vag"
Nobody was saying a clap on the back was emotional support...
Do yourself, and this thread, a favor, and scroll up and watch the video. It will take all of four minutes. I'm not going to transcribe Savage's comments.
Well, it is! From what I've seen, that's what most straight men expect and want to do with a woman.
most men may prefer intercourse becuase it fulfills their sexual needs/desires best, but I don't know many straight men that do not enjoy (pg 13 safe) those "other things"
When you're attempting to say people with conflicting parts don't think of sex as just male and female parts....well yes, they don't nessarily have the other options so naturally others are explored and more weight put in to them. It's how they express their needs/desires.
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Do yourself, and this thread, a favor, and scroll up and watch the video. It will take all of four minutes. I'm not going to transcribe Savage's comments.
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Well, no. The whole point is that homosexuals have these conversations before they get naked, after the kiss but before the ____.
Homosexuals don't have a "default." Heteros do, peen in vag. That is a peen-centric way of looking at things, as men are pretty much guaranteed an orgasm from it, whereas women most certainly are not. It goes hand-in-hand with the thinking that sex is over with his orgasm because he is physically no longer able to have intercourse, which is another b.s. way of thinking.
Some do, some don't. Just as some hets do, and some don't. As adults, yeah, a good chunk of gay dudes will let the prospective partner know they're a top or oral bottom (or whatever) before they get it on, but that happens among hets as well. Shoot, its one of the common date topics, and women bring it up (because as a guy its considered not so classy to do so).
And no, men aren't guaranteed to orgasm from it (especially with a condom). Pretty much anything but. I'm certainly not, quite the opposite (and thankful for that). Of course, something feeling good and resulting in orgasm aren't inclusive synonyms.
I don't know what type of dudes some of you are hanging with, but most of my lady friends that are happy in relationships have dudes that know that she should get off before he does. I mean, that's something most of us figured out by college (if you want the lady to keep coming back).
Well, no. The whole point is that homosexuals have these conversations before they get naked, after the kiss but before the ____.
Homosexuals don't have a "default." Heteros do, peen in vag. That is a peen-centric way of looking at things, as men are pretty much guaranteed an orgasm from it, whereas women most certainly are not. It goes hand-in-hand with the thinking that sex is over with his orgasm because he is physically no longer able to have intercourse, which is another b.s. way of thinking.
This is very true
My wife and I have gay friends...not ALL men like having anal sex on the receiving end...put two of these together and anal sex is rare, maybe a special occasion, if ever...
same with gay women...some do not want ANY penetration, some do...ive listened to many alcohol (truth serum) filled discussions with gay couples and it seems there are many many different sexual variations...while straight men want peen-vag (to use someone elses term LOL) typically...bj's a close second
I totally disagree with the "its over after a man orgasms" theory...if you want to keep your partner, you figure out the timing...either she climaxes before you do or after...simultaneous only happens in the movies...it doesn't take much time or effort to figure out what makes her tick...if you care enough you do...I was a horny pig and was very promiscuous as a young lad, but I still wanted to make her climax...I wasn't selfish in bed...
I don't know what type of dudes some of you are hanging with, but most of my lady friends that are happy in relationships have dudes that know that she should get off before he does. I mean, that's something most of us figured out by college (if you want the lady to keep coming back).
Trust me: Most of y'all men did not figure it out. You were taught.
most men may prefer intercourse becuase it fulfills their sexual needs/desires best, but I don't know many straight men that do not enjoy (pg 13 safe) those "other things"
When you're attempting to say people with conflicting parts don't think of sex as just make and female parts....well yes, they don't nessarily have the other option so naturally others are explored and more weight put in to them. It's how they express their needs/desires.
I'm not saying that straight men don't enjoy other things as foreplay, but it's not considered "real sex" until Part A is inserted into Part B. Sure, that's fun for them, but since I don't have a desire or need for that, I get called a frigid asexual (possibly lesbian) who needs therapy.
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