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Hi, I met this girl through Facebook 3 months ago, we started talking a lot daily. We both are from Mexico and she was doing her medical internship in Europe when we met through Facebook. A month later she returned from Europe and we met in person 3 times, she broke up from a 3 year relationship 6 months ago because her boyfriend went to another state to make his medical service and he dumped her, she was very emotionally abusive with her, she is surprised that I treat her so well. We have very good chemistry and great spark. So well, we have dated 3 times already kissed many times and held hands, we text daily and talk on the phone many times a week, this starts to feel like a relationship but the thing is that she will go to Europe or New York to make her masters degree in one year and a half, I don't know what to do, if cut the looses right now or just see where things go. I don't want to get hurt. Any tips?. Im 28 years old and she is 24.
Her career is going to come before you. If you are in a rush for wife material, better look elsewhere. If you are happy (or can live) with the status quo just keep things the way they are.
You have only been on three dates. If you do not want to risk getting more involved and the possibility of getting hurt, I would back off the kissing and decide if both of you can be satisfied with your relationship being that of just "friends" for now. If so, continue on that basis. It will keep both of your expectations of one another low. I think it will be very difficult for you to have a long distance romance. It can be done--I just said it will be difficult.
If you are so worried about being hurt, then why date or even look for a relationship at all?
I know if I distanced my self "just because she might move away" while a relationship is going so well, I'd live the rest of my life wondering "What if?"
You owe it to yourself to let things play out.... If she moves away, decide then if the relationship is worth pursuing. If not.. you had fun. If so... you have wonderful relationship that is worth fighting for.
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If you don't want to get hurt, may as well cut bait now. No use being in a relationship with an expiration date.
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