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I am pretty old fashioned, but I don't think I would even notice if a guy walked me to my car or not. That just seems so trivial.
God some women find anything to complain about.
Actually she told me he was so clueless that when they got to the car he literally asked her "do I have to stand here and watch you turn the car on and drive away"? So she's taking it as him being totally clueless, which judging from that statement he may be...SMH.
Lol!!! This is funy!!!
I think guys get a vibe like, "Walk me to my car." = "You might get some."
When he gets to the car and there is "none." Well, a sarcastic "Should I wait here for your car to start?"
I'm with the guy who said, "Are you Gunna drive me to my car now?"
I'm so out of touch with this stuff.
2 blocks can be seen from his car I bet.
I suppose you could drive along side of her as she walks.
"Hurry up! It's chilly riding with the window down.
Well, take your heels off and walk then."
I think it's a sweet and gallant gesture, but if a woman is genuinely worried about physical danger, I'd hope she has the sense to drive the guy back to his home or car after he escorts her.
Plus it's an excellent opportunity for a good-night kiss.
This is my ulterior motive. A kiss after a first date tells me all I need to know about the person, most of the time. Not all the time, but most. The dates where I didn't get a kiss, it was pretty much understood that we weren't going anywhere.
This is my ulterior motive. A kiss after a first date tells me all I need to know about the person, most of the time. Not all the time, but most. The dates where I didn't get a kiss, it was pretty much understood that we weren't going anywhere.
Interesting. I've never kissed on an actual first date. It's not even something I would consider or think about doing.
While in Asia I’ve had dates take me to my station just to make sure I make it home just fine. I’ve told them I am fine and I can speak the language enough to find my way if I get lost but they still offered and I accepted. It’s not like she would do some karate for me if I was in danger or anything but I find it nice for a woman to offer that kind of gesture even though its not that common in other cultures for women to be concerned about a man's safety.
Yep cus' those mean ol' western women when dating someone unfamiliar with the territory from another country barely speaking the language wouldn't give a flip about his safety getting back home. Only women from "Asia" are kind and care about others.
I live in a college town where a young female student was murdered two weeks before her graduation (a couple of months ago), where another female student went missing 5-6 years ago (and has never been found) while walking home from a friend's apartment, and where the university continuously promotes safety in numbers. If I was single, I would be irritated if I had to ask a date to walk me to my car at night. I would offer to drive him back to his.
I hope I've raised my son (and daughter) to do that for safety reasons if nothing else.
I've always escorted my lady/girlfriend to her car or/& to her front door, because I care about her safety. A few have even been escorted by Smith&Wesson, in her purse, or holster on her person...
This is my ulterior motive. A kiss after a first date tells me all I need to know about the person, most of the time. Not all the time, but most. The dates where I didn't get a kiss, it was pretty much understood that we weren't going anywhere.
Well like I said in the original post, after their first date I believe he did walk to her car but it was probably so he could get a kiss, however on this date she told me that they were already kissing (I guess by his car?) so maybe he felt there was no need to walk her to her car since he already got the kiss.
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