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No never I will talk to him even I have feelings for him ! What I m dealing with is he is on my facebook friends, I don't know if I delete him now or wait until I will more strong !
Last edited by kelly2000; 06-28-2015 at 09:36 AM..
You didnt have a relationship, you were just chatting online. He got tired of it and moved on. Its not unusual. You are putting far more into this than he is. He's moved on.
Remember, in order to have a relationship you have to actually have MET that person. Otherwise its just online chat.
yeah, now I have to accept that I was just a wasting time for him ! and its a lesson for a future do not trust everyone ! I was so stupid to give him my heart before I know him well !
What I have found with long distance relationships is that men* are in it only for the entertainment value.
* I say men, because that is the gender that I've had LDRs with. I'm sure some women do as well, but I'm not one of them and don't have any women friends that do either. I'm not man-bashing. Just stating MY experience.
Now, I think that I was just that entertainment ! but what hurting me a lot is why he didn't just say stop I don't want you ! and I will understand also, its more easy to turn this chapter and move on with respect ! he is 40 old he is not child why he treat me like a trash ! all that questions killing my mind and stopped me to move on !
It's always easier to just walk away without giving an explanation. Giving you a reason for not chatting with you would mean that you would then respond. He just wanted it to end, so he ended it.
thank you metamorphosis and all members give me their opinions. I know its true all they say but still just hurt and now I m blaming my self because I trusted him and I gave him my heart before I know him ! this reason pushed me to left all social media to forget but its not easy because I felt in love with this manipulator ! I cut contact not only from him but with all my friends too !
Just be thankful that you only spent 4 months of your life on this. There are things to learn from it - about online chatting, about other people, about yourself, and about protecting your heart rather than getting hurt so easily.
I don't understand what your friends have to do with this guy, but surround yourself with genuine people. Real-life people.
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