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Old 06-29-2015, 07:26 PM
 
Location: kansas city
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I have no idea how to react?! should i be nice to her? should i automatically "Unfriend" her. Cut her out of my social circle? Or Do i act like nothing every happened and just move on quietly resent the time i took trying to hook up with her? Decisions, Decisions.........
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Old 06-29-2015, 07:32 PM
 
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Be a grown up....how old are you? Did she lead you on in anyway?
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Old 06-29-2015, 07:36 PM
 
Location: Earth
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I would say you should still be cordial to her. After all she didn't do anything wrong, other than date someone she was attracted to. Sadly, it wasn't you. Unrequited / One-sided attraction happens constantly. Some have it happen more than others.

So I would say not to be rude to her. But, if being just friends isn't enough, and you don't care for seeing her with her SO on top of it, then you could cut down on the time you spend around her. You could cut her out completely. It's entirely up to you. No wrong answer, aside from being hateful to her. So whatever choice is made, be mature and cordial about it.

Me personally, as soon as I find he's already involved, I wouldn't associate with him anymore. Other than casual acquaintances, like speaking if we bump into one another or something.

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Old 06-29-2015, 07:38 PM
 
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I cry myself to sleep.
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Old 06-29-2015, 07:46 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Move on. How long does it usually take to know if a persons taken? try like 2secs.

Next time ask before investing any time; you'll be less disappointed.
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Old 06-29-2015, 07:53 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Move on, go fishing.
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Old 06-29-2015, 08:08 PM
 
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That's life. You are now one girl less from the total you need to go through to get to the one you are more meant to be with.
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Old 06-29-2015, 08:33 PM
 
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Just become her best friend in a couple of months.
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Old 06-30-2015, 06:33 AM
 
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Default How do you react when the person you like is already taken?

"Dam Nit!!!"

Seriously, if she likes you she will dump her current boyfriend so play it cool.

"That's too bad. I was hoping we could get to know each other better."
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Old 06-30-2015, 08:34 AM
 
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WHISKKEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEY!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4faSs0mg_pI

Yeah, pretty much.
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