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I made a mistake chatting sex with a anonymous guy and it turned out to be a younger colleague at work.
It will be big embarrassment if he tells everybody at work as chatting sex is hidden side of mine, I do not show myself as that kind of girl in front of everybody.
He now blackmails me, I don't know what to do. Anybody can give some advice?
I made a mistake chatting sex with a anonymous guy and it turned out to be a younger colleague at work.
It will be big embarrassment if he tells everybody at work as chatting sex is hidden side of mine, I do not show myself as that kind of girl in front of everybody.
He now blackmails me, I don't know what to do. Anybody can give some advice?
Tell tiny little minute man to shut up or it gets run up the chain. Assuming this occurred in the United States it would amount to sexual harassment. If he doesn't cease and desist he and your employer run the risk of litigation.
I made a mistake chatting sex with a anonymous guy and it turned out to be a younger colleague at work.
It will be big embarrassment if he tells everybody at work as chatting sex is hidden side of mine, I do not show myself as that kind of girl in front of everybody.
He now blackmails me, I don't know what to do. Anybody can give some advice?
Did he chat back? Did you sent him embarrassing pictures? Are you/is he in a relationship? Are you his boss?
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I think there is more embarrassment there than substance to blackmail. You both did wrong, you veered heavily into a conversation that went beyond where you would typically go, and you have great regrets. First, don't ever do this again. Second, it likely will not come up because both of you would be criticized for having such a titillating conversation in the workforce. My guess is this won't arise again.
My guess is also this is not a common thing for you to have done and this is something outside a 'cultural' norm for you. How did you begin this engagement on this discussion? How did it get to an awkward place? What made you stop when you did and how were you able to disconnect from the discussion?
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