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Originally Posted by CapsChick
No dude. Just rip the Band-Aid off. You owe her a straightforward breakup. Waiting for your relationship to naturally run its course and die off is going to cause unnecessary pain for both of you-- not to mention, it's a darn cruel thing to do to her.
I really think so many guys work out a way in their minds to justify avoiding a breakup conversation, convincing themselves it's actually better for the woman when really, it's just cowardice on their own part.
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I agree.
Just tell her you have not been honest with her or yourself, and that you are very unhappy.
That you made promises to her prematurely, and now you really regret them. You know it is causing her pain, but you would rather not see each other anymore so you can stop the pain from getting worse.
Then walk away and don't look back.
And from now on, LISTEN to your gut and be honest from the get-go.