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Old 07-03-2015, 02:51 PM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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Wow.

You two are not on a relationship.

You two are not relating.

He is not related to you.

He does not see you.

He does not spend time with you.

He does not even speak to you to ask if you are alive.

He broke up with you quietly without letting you know because he is a coward and inexperoenced like a young child. This is sad for you and Im sorry you are grieving this loss. Its his loss, so dont cry too long. Lots of real men in this world who will give youvattwntion and a true relationship where you are cared about.

Igmore him. Do not contact him. Block him from everything plus Facebook plus life. Do not ask him questions. Do not send him a letter. Do not justify yourself. Its over. Treat him like a stranger. Do not be friends.
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Old 07-03-2015, 02:55 PM
 
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I'll take 'You're Now Single' for $500, Alex.
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Old 07-03-2015, 03:02 PM
 
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I haven't seen him almost a month. He won't talk to me, he won't give me the time of day and his excuse is "I'm working."
He's not your boyfriend anymore.
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Old 07-03-2015, 05:18 PM
 
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Even if I was to break up with him, how would I go about doing so? I can't see him, he doesn't even talk to me anymore for me to meet up with him. He's an *******.
You dont have to do a thing. Its already done.
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Old 07-03-2015, 11:21 PM
 
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Thanks guys, I kind of figured he isn't interested in me anymore after everything he done to me. I was blindly in love and didn't realize I was hurting only myself sticking around waiting for him to care about me. Like someone said, he doesn't even talk to me to see if I'm still alive. It's hard letting go but I'm going to follow my heart and that is to leave this ******* completely. He was like my best friend and now it's over. I learned a lesson that good things don't last forever. I just hope no one else goes through what I went through, it's painful.
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Old 07-04-2015, 06:54 AM
 
Location: Pa
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I wish you luck OP and hope you meet a real man in the near future.
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Old 07-04-2015, 11:17 PM
 
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You know what makes me mad, today was his day off because of 4th of july, he didn't even call me or anything. I'm heart broken and the worst part is I have his dog, I was watching the little puppy for him for about two months now and now since this guy left me, every time I look at his dog it tears me apart. I'm attatched to the dog but it hurts every time I see him. Worst feeling in the world when someones makes you think they love you a lot then leave without saying anything. Worst 4th of July ever, I hope everyone is having a good one.
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Old 07-04-2015, 11:43 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I'm sorry you're feeling this way right now.... things change and you'll feel better, just may take a little time.....

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Old 07-05-2015, 05:50 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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You know what makes me mad, today was his day off because of 4th of july, he didn't even call me or anything. I'm heart broken and the worst part is I have his dog, I was watching the little puppy for him for about two months now and now since this guy left me, every time I look at his dog it tears me apart. I'm attatched to the dog but it hurts every time I see him. Worst feeling in the world when someones makes you think they love you a lot then leave without saying anything. Worst 4th of July ever, I hope everyone is having a good one.
It's probably your dog now.
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Old 07-05-2015, 06:04 AM
 
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Keep the dog. You got the better end of the deal.
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