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Old 07-05-2015, 07:58 AM
 
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The biggest lesson I learned is that you really should know who you are before trying to figure out who someone else is.
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Old 07-05-2015, 09:27 AM
 
Location: california
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Be honest ,
Be the person you strive for ,
Be better than I was,
and better than I am now.
That is more than enough challenge for one person.
Though I can counsel people that have problems ,
but if they do not wish to fix their problems,
I can't do it for them.
If you marry some one hoping to change them,
or some aspect of marriage will change them,
you are in a fantasy.
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Old 07-05-2015, 11:39 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Peace is priority.
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Old 07-05-2015, 02:42 PM
 
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I learned this early on in dating:

1) If, early on in a relationship, a woman gives off signs that she will be a stalker by acting overly possessive, etc. - then the best thing to do is to nip this in the bud & break it off immediately. Because if you don't, it will only get worse. I found out the hard way, and had to end up changing my phone # - TWICE - because of a stalker ex-girlfriend. Since then, I have been able to see these stalker-ish signs well ahead of time.

2) Date who you're attracted to, not who society says you should be attracted to. Many of my ex-girlfriends were skinny women, when the whole time I liked bigger women. So, now I only date large women with wide a$$e$, and am a lot happier for it.

That being said, it seems that a lot of women these days are obsessed with dieting...

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Old 07-05-2015, 02:54 PM
 
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Avoid letting them talk to my family and friends for awhile.

"Is he always like this?" "Has he always been this way?"

Yep! LOL
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Old 07-05-2015, 03:20 PM
 
Location: New Yawk
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-Never let a relationship derail your other priorities
-Know how much bull**** you're willing to put up with
-Don't drag out a relationship that is not working
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Old 07-05-2015, 03:45 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Listen to your gut instinct.
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Old 07-05-2015, 03:48 PM
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I appreciate you all sharing your life lessons with me, thank you!
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Old 07-05-2015, 05:58 PM
 
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Twin Sister must approve of any and all women........or it just won't workout.

They better be the real thing and genuine......the lioness can smell their fear and deception from a mile away. If not, make sure you don't ever get her drunk. She'll tell you/them exactly what she thinks and doesn't care who hears it.

My Mom is backup for anything my Sister misses or doesn't see. I've avoided some real messes in the past from their unsolicited help and advice. You really don't want to hear it or believe it, they have no reason to make up lies.

"That broad is trouble...stay away!"

Ok girls!
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Old 07-05-2015, 08:24 PM
 
Location: Pa
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A person is always subject to change.
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