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So my friend's boyfriend of one month recently told her that he loves her. They knew each other casually for maybe a month or a few months prior to when they started dating. They are in their mid and late 20s. Also, they haven't had sex yet, so this whole thing about men needing to have sex before they can decide whether they're in love with someone is obviously a lie.
My ex told me after only about a month. He may not have: we were still in the infatuation stage. Still, it developed into real love even if it wasn't when he told me.
Really none of our business and no reasons to cast aspersions on someone for saying they love someone before "we" think it is appropriate.
Yes, the guy could be lying. That remains to be seen. And no, he doesn't represent all men or even the majority of men, but I'm still taking note of this.
It's possible that he was admiring her and/or crushing on her during the time they knew each other casually.
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Right. Just like how you can date someone for a long time and have sex with them, and they might just love the sex but not you.
True. So? What are you trying to get at?
Just because someone says they love you, doesn't mean they do.
Just because someone loves you, doesn't mean they say it.
Just because you do have sex doesn't mean they do, or do not, love you.
What are you trying to say?
Most everyone sleeps with and even falls for a number of people before finding the right person. Not a big deal. That's part of life.
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