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It was just very disheartening she wasn't willing to work on us. I guess it's whatever at this point. At least it wasn't my wife leaving me. Things could be worse.
I know what you mean by wanting closer. I wanted it with my last relationship and never got it. Sometimes you just don't. It makes it harder to get over things, but it's not impossible. Sometime life just doesn't give you closer, you have to make it for yourself. At this point, I think you should let it go and do something for yourself to give yourself a kind of closure. Good luck.
I know what you mean by wanting closer. I wanted it with my last relationship and never got it. Sometimes you just don't. It makes it harder to get over things, but it's not impossible. Sometime life just doesn't give you closer, you have to make it for yourself. At this point, I think you should let it go and do something for yourself to give yourself a kind of closure. Good luck.
That's a good point.
Sometimes you have to force closure. We may feel that we deserve more, and we think closure should come naturally.
But......sometimes it just doesn't work out that way.
While I was going through my divorce, a very wise lady friend gave me some good advice:
"YAZ, maybe a few years down the road.....you and your ex wife just might be able to have a mutually beneficial relationship. But for now, you need to stay away from her."
Dated girl for 2 year (lived together for a year). She moved out in December but we kept hooking up until April. Things ended for good in April when she started seeing someone else. We hung one night and pretty much never saw each since. At this point I feel I might not ever see her again. She agreed to meet up to get closure and everything, but I bailed because I still had some feelings for her, and her having a boyfriend who hurt me If I saw her. Obviously, I'd love to see her again. Should I meet with her in person for closure or just leave it and never see her again. She meant a lot to me to never, and it's to accept I won't see her again. She hasn't replied to my last 3-4 texts, but If I asked to meet up for closure she actually might do it. Thoughts??
Didn't you get closure when she moved out? I mean WOW, things just don't get any clearer. 'I'm outta here and taking Fido along. Bye!'
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