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Old 07-12-2015, 05:16 PM
 
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Im 41 been w my BF for almost 3yrs!! He and his wife at the time moved in with his mom in 2007 after his dad died to help her out. In 2010 his wife left him cause his mom always made them feel guilty for wanting to move out!! I met him in 2011 he was still at his mom's did not have a job and wont leave her cause she cant live alone!! I cant take it anymore he is not working cause he does not have a car got into trouble 3yrs ago and just finished community service and probation plus he has a drinking problem and health issues!! He will be 40 in november cant get over his dad's death and his mom feels like she has to have him as her company!!! I know i deserve better things will never change and i know God will bring the right man in my life!! I have my own place and work two jobs to support myself!! I hope this thread can help someone else if they have been down this road too!! Im looking forward to meeting new people and making some friends!!!

 
Old 07-12-2015, 08:35 PM
 
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Do what his mom
is doing only do it better. lol
 
Old 07-12-2015, 09:02 PM
 
Location: Houston
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Why would you ever even get involved with a man with no job, living with his mom, has a drinking problem, on probation, and has health issues?

When you willingly enter a relationship like that you get exactly what you deserve.

Why do you even question what you should do? Find someone better. But I'm guessing if you willingly got involved with a man like that you'll probably do the same again.

Good luck anyway.
 
Old 07-12-2015, 10:15 PM
 
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He doesnt have the resources to move out. He has no job and no car and is an alcoholic. He has no way to support himself when he moves. Dont let this moochee move in with you!!!
 
Old 07-13-2015, 07:51 AM
 
Location: in here, out there
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He must be really cute.
 
Old 07-13-2015, 11:04 AM
 
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Im 41 been w my BF for almost 3yrs!! He and his wife at the time moved in with his mom in 2007 after his dad died to help her out. In 2010 his wife left him cause his mom always made them feel guilty for wanting to move out!! I met him in 2011 he was still at his mom's did not have a job and wont leave her cause she cant live alone!! I cant take it anymore he is not working cause he does not have a car got into trouble 3yrs ago and just finished community service and probation plus he has a drinking problem and health issues!! He will be 40 in november cant get over his dad's death and his mom feels like she has to have him as her company!!! I know i deserve better things will never change and i know God will bring the right man in my life!! I have my own place and work two jobs to support myself!! I hope this thread can help someone else if they have been down this road too!! Im looking forward to meeting new people and making some friends!!!
Why are you with this loser in the first place?
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