If you knew that your friend's boyfriend was cheating on her, would you tell her or keep it secret? (child support, acquaintance)

[YaFace]

NEVER tell someone that someone is cheating on them. Unless you physically see it, you could be wrong, not worth the risk.

[bingo3000]

Originally Posted by YaFace

NEVER tell someone that someone is cheating on them. Unless you physically see it, you could be wrong, not worth the risk.

Unless you saw them having sexual interaction with your own eyes.

[the minx]

There are a couple of men I know who are cheaters. I would looooove to rat them out but I've refrained because I don't know the women well.

If it was a friend, I would tell. I wouldn't want to hear the old, "why didn't you tell me" speech.

[keepingquiet]

Originally Posted by bingo3000

Unless you saw them having sexual interaction with your own eyes.

Even then they could be in an open relationship

[Matrixliz]

Tell her, of course! She could get an STD!

[veuvegirl]

Tell, no question.

[YaFace]

Originally Posted by veuvegirl

Tell, no question.

So you would purposely ruin someone's life and family without blinking an eye? Man you are cold!

[Ginge McFantaPants]

Originally Posted by YaFace

So you would purposely ruin someone's life and family without blinking an eye? Man you are cold!

The blame lays squarely at the feet of the cheater, not the friend who is sparing her the humiliation of not knowing.

[RedZin]

People sometimes shoot the messenger. Keep out of it.

[TabulaRasa]

I'd approach the cheater and give him the opp to come clean, first.