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Old 07-21-2015, 03:07 PM
 
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You need to man up and talk to her about this. And btw, pulling out is NOT an effective form of birth control.
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Old 07-21-2015, 03:11 PM
 
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I wasn't digging in the trash, the box was pretty much the only thing in the garbage bin in her bedroom, almost in plain view. There weren't any pills in it, just the box. I know if she had sex while we were broken up there's not much I can do except if she had unprotected sex I should know.
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Old 07-21-2015, 03:12 PM
 
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Well, who would know if she had unprotected sex better than a bunch of strangers on the internet?
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Old 07-21-2015, 03:17 PM
 
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Ok so I should talk to her about this. How do I bring it up? I don't wanna accuse her of anything or imply that she's a **** or anything. I like her and respect her very much.
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Old 07-21-2015, 03:19 PM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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Well, who would know if she had unprotected sex better than a bunch of strangers on the internet?

OP, I was just thinking about a weekend or so ago. What's your girlfriend's name?


Back to serious. A guy who uses withdrawal as the preferred birth control method soon changes title from boyfriend to expectant father.
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Old 07-21-2015, 03:21 PM
 
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Well, who would know if she had unprotected sex better than a bunch of strangers on the internet?
Lmao!!! Come on we know everything
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Old 07-21-2015, 03:34 PM
 
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I understand the reasons why she decided to go on the pill, she doesn't wanna get pregnant. I just don't understand why NOW. It's the timing. We were broken up so NOW she goes on the pill?
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Old 07-21-2015, 03:36 PM
 
Location: The Greater Houston Metro Area
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#1) You broke up. She knows she will probably have sex with someone sooner or later and doesn't want to get pregnant.

#2) You are back together, but have proven to be less than stable about being in the relationship - so she doesn't want to get pregnant.
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Old 07-21-2015, 03:37 PM
 
Location: california
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I was broken up with my gf for 10 days (I broke up with her then asked her to take me back), we got back together on Saturday (3 days ago) and had sex last night. I found a box of what I suspected were birth control pills in the garbage bin in her room. I didn't know at the time what they were but I remembered the name so I looked it up when I got home. They were in fact birth control pills. I never wore a condom in our relationship, we've been together for 10 months, and she had mentioned months ago that she didn't like being on the pill. She didn't say anything to me about being on the pill now. Is this something she should share with me? Should I ask her about this? She could have bought them yesterday for all I know.
I am not sure of your issue. You are aware she is taking the medication but want what...a monthly update if she is still getting it refilled each month? I think if that is what you wanted, a constant update on her meds, you needed to notify her. My guess is it's an easy request she'd be willing to honor.
Good luck to you both
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Old 07-21-2015, 03:37 PM
 
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Let's hope your baby is smarter than you.
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