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Old 07-22-2015, 12:17 AM
 
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Twice it has happened to me that the man I'm with has chosen to be with a trashy woman instead. I have a lot going for me, and I do not sleep around. The man who did this the first time, preferred a woman who literally weighed twice what I weigh (more than his weight too) , who was "easy" and did not have custody of her children. I know the courts in general do not like to take kids especially away from the mother so I take this as a pretty bad sign. The second time it happened, I was wiser so I left him before he made more a fool of me than he already had. The woman was younger than me and not quite as trashy as the one in the first example, but she too had lost custody of her child. The father in this case had as well. I don't know much about it having walked early when I was first disrespected, but why are men willing to lose a good woman (I am responsible , if I had children, I highly doubt I would lose them to a spouse or to the system, and each man's family has made an effort to stay in touch with me in both cases.) Why do some men prefer this, even when they know , due to concern for their own children and / or the woman is in a relationship with someone else (which doesn't stop her from cheating etc.) , that the new woman is a poor choice and still they go? Is it just someone new? Any answers that help my understanding or stories would be appreciated. Thank you.
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Old 07-22-2015, 12:20 AM
 
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Twice it has happened to me that the man I'm with has chosen to be with a trashy woman instead. I have a lot going for me, and I do not sleep around. The man who did this the first time, preferred a woman who literally weighed twice what I weigh (more than his weight too) , who was "easy" and did not have custody of her children. I know the courts in general do not like to take kids especially away from the mother so I take this as a pretty bad sign. The second time it happened, I was wiser so I left him before he made more a fool of me than he already had. The woman was younger than me and not quite as trashy as the one in the first example, but she too had lost custody of her child. The father in this case had as well. I don't know much about it having walked early when I was first disrespected, but why are men willing to lose a good woman (I am responsible , if I had children, I highly doubt I would lose them to a spouse or to the system, and each man's family has made an effort to stay in touch with me in both cases.) Why do some men prefer this, even when they know , due to concern for their own children and / or the woman is in a relationship with someone else (which doesn't stop her from cheating etc.) , that the new woman is a poor choice and still they go? Is it just someone new? Any answers that help my understanding or stories would be appreciated. Thank you.
Sounds like this ^ in your case
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Old 07-22-2015, 12:34 AM
 
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Men do not like earning sex they rather just put in the bare minimum just to earn it
classier woman hold them to higher standards and don't want to deal with that
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Old 07-22-2015, 12:36 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Maybe, some guys like trashy women. I also hear they're better in the sack.
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Old 07-22-2015, 12:39 AM
 
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Twice it has happened to me that the man I'm with has chosen to be with a trashy woman instead. I have a lot going for me, and I do not sleep around. The man who did this the first time, preferred a woman who literally weighed twice what I weigh (more than his weight too) , who was "easy" and did not have custody of her children. I know the courts in general do not like to take kids especially away from the mother so I take this as a pretty bad sign. The second time it happened, I was wiser so I left him before he made more a fool of me than he already had. The woman was younger than me and not quite as trashy as the one in the first example, but she too had lost custody of her child. The father in this case had as well. I don't know much about it having walked early when I was first disrespected, but why are men willing to lose a good woman (I am responsible , if I had children, I highly doubt I would lose them to a spouse or to the system, and each man's family has made an effort to stay in touch with me in both cases.) Why do some men prefer this, even when they know , due to concern for their own children and / or the woman is in a relationship with someone else (which doesn't stop her from cheating etc.) , that the new woman is a poor choice and still they go? Is it just someone new? Any answers that help my understanding or stories would be appreciated. Thank you.
How trashy are the guys? Maybe they're just stupid?

I don't know what to tell you, except that I hope you find some better people to spend time with.
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Old 07-22-2015, 12:41 AM
 
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This calls for a song.

http://youtu.be/vfXs0m32A8E

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Old 07-22-2015, 12:45 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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Maybe they don't like women who judge others as "trashy."
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Old 07-22-2015, 12:56 AM
 
Location: Empire State of Philly
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I wouldn't call these women "trashy" per se.

However, I think those women have looser morals and lower standards, which means they're obviously easier into get to bed.

They're probably less "work" and we all know men don't like to work for sex.

These women are easy pickings.

Keep in mind that "classy" and "trashy" are subjective terms.

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Old 07-22-2015, 12:57 AM
 
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Maybe, some guys like trashy women. I also hear they're better in the sack.
LOL
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Old 07-22-2015, 01:10 AM
 
Location: Illinois
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Because they are low class, trashy people also. Because they like women they can control. Because they know they can get laid (which, according to C-D Relationships, is ALL men care about) without any kids around.
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