Would you date a girl who had 0 friends? (how to, younger, family)
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I don't get where this "psycho" assumption came from. Plenty of "crazy" folks have friends. I knew a schizophrenic who would occasionally "forget" to take her meds, and she had plenty of friends.
Yeah, I have had some friends who have said they have no friends....and after I was friends with them I found out why they have no friends....so there are some people out there who need serious therapy before they get into into serious relationships.
I just moved half way across the world to a place where I don't speak the language and dumped about 15 friends in the process... Still have 4-5 good friends back home though and have made 3-4 new friends here.
I totally get the whole doing things by yourself plan (that's me, 95% of the time) but I do still have friends.
Just because you have no friends, doesn't necessarily make you crazy.
Because I was that girl with no friends once apon a time. In high school, sure, there were people I talked to in class. Sure, I had clubs and stuff I went to. But none of those people were my friends. I never went out with anyone...I had no one. No one ever wanted to hang out with me. I admit I was a weird kid. I was super extroverted, and on the outside I'd fit in. But, I didn't fit in with most extroverted people, because my hobbies were introverted ones....games and anime. They wouldn't hang out with me. The nerds, I guess you could say, didn't like me either because I was extroverted and girly. I wouldn't dress up or role play with them. I was stuck until I met my current boyfriend, who is older than me and had already graduated. I didn't fit in in high school, but once I graduated I got a lot of friends. I matured and found people like myself! And my boyfriend helped me with that. So don't date someone just because she has 0 friends. You could help her so so much, she just needs that stepping stone.
I don't think a majority of respondents thus far have actually said, "Having no friends means you are crazy."
At any rate, it appears the OP is asking for herself...if the fact that she chooses not to develop friendships with others will be a hindrance to dating.
The answer? Could be, depending on why it is she chooses not to develop friendships with others.
What does a woman with no boyfriend and no friends do on the weekend?
I wouldn't have any interest in dating a woman that had no friends.
I would like to know the answer to this too. Sure, you could do solo activities, but every weekend?
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Originally Posted by Anti_Socialite
Why are people so obsessed with weekends? I like to shop. Shopping is life, shopping is love. Shoes over boys, amirite LADIES?? AM I RIGHT???
This post is not helping your cause. You sound nuts here.
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Originally Posted by xRedd
Wow, people are hurtful.
Just because you have no friends, doesn't necessarily make you crazy.
Because I was that girl with no friends once apon a time. In high school, sure, there were people I talked to in class. Sure, I had clubs and stuff I went to. But none of those people were my friends. I never went out with anyone...I had no one. No one ever wanted to hang out with me. I admit I was a weird kid. I was super extroverted, and on the outside I'd fit in. But, I didn't fit in with most extroverted people, because my hobbies were introverted ones....games and anime. They wouldn't hang out with me. The nerds, I guess you could say, didn't like me either because I was extroverted and girly. I wouldn't dress up or role play with them. I was stuck until I met my current boyfriend, who is older than me and had already graduated. I didn't fit in in high school, but once I graduated I got a lot of friends. I matured and found people like myself! And my boyfriend helped me with that. So don't date someone just because she has 0 friends. You could help her so so much, she just needs that stepping stone.
I was that kid too, in high school. I have friends now. And after a certain age, why would you want to help someone develop friendships? That's something that you learn at a young age.
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