Ignored by men my age (partner, social, attraction, sleeping)

[Sommie789]

Originally Posted by luckodeirish

Yes I am sort of shocked that the OP does not see why men would prefer someone 20+ years younger. It has me wondering if this is a real thread or someone is fooling with us.

Bottom line, young women are prettier.

This why certain men are single now.
Women my age don't really want to be with older men.
Most older men are not a catch to be honest.

[soy sauce]

Originally Posted by ashleyspruen

I have a question for the older ladies. Do you find that men your age appreciate what you have to offer or are they mostly going for younger women?

I've noticed that I don't get as much attention as I used to. I'm 45. Whenever I see men who are around my age hanging around with girls in their 20s it makes me wonder what they have that I don't.

I believe I have a lot to offer, such as :

Experience
My own house and car
A career
2 kids
Confidence

I'm more well rounded, experienced and confident than these young girls, so why is it that I'm mostly ignored these days? I honestly don't feel that I'm lacking in anything.

You must be somewhat new to dating.

[Adi from the Brunswicks]

I'm going to exit this thread by saying that the OP has not returned. Time to take another Expy.

[Sommie789]

Originally Posted by Ihustleformylastname

Exactly! I don't know why its so hard for people to understand. When men and women are young(15-28) women have ALL the advantages in dating. They're young and beautiful and have tight bodies. They get to pick and choose who they want to date, and not only do men their own age want to date them older men do too. But as they get older,(35+) and they their beauty starts to fade and and all their friends are married, and their biological clock starts ticking and they start getting desperate, then that's when men start to have all the advantages in dating. And older man, who looks decent, and who has a decent job, and his own place and no kids becomes the cream of the crop and he has his choices of women his age AND younger chicks.

Wrong! Older male are not desired by younger women.Older male are likely to be single than females.

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by Sommie789

Wrong! Older male are not desired by younger women.Older male are likely to be single than females.

Men, especially older men have a tendency to not want to be alone. Older women are more content, in general, then older men in being alone.

This is pretty commonly understood to be the case, like I said in general.

This is actually a compliment toward women.

[Sommie789]

Originally Posted by Ihustleformylastname

I could fill up this thread with pictures of guys like Derek Jeter, George Clooney, Donald Trump, Rupert Murdoch and many others who date and marry women WAY younger than they are.

They are rich unlike rest of us.

[Dewdroplet76]

Originally Posted by Ihustleformylastname

I could fill up this thread with pictures of guys like Derek Jeter, George Clooney, Donald Trump, Rupert Murdoch and many others who date and marry women WAY younger than they are.

George Clooney might be a good deal older than his wife - but she's in her late 30's, she's very successful, and she's extremely intelligent. She's not some 22 year old hottie who likes to go out partying all the time.

[Sommie789]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

Men, especially older men have a tendency to not want to be alone. Older women are more content, in general, then older men in being alone.

This is pretty commonly understood to be the case, like I said in general.

This is actually a compliment toward women.

I am talking about 40 something men who are single.

[Akonyo]

If all else fails, guys could go overseas and marry much younger women.

That's my ace-in-the-hole if Plan A fails.

[Sommie789]

Originally Posted by Ihustleformylastname

I wouldn't cry, that's apart of the game. Men get judged by what kind of job his has, or how much money he has or would he be a good provider. Women get judged on their looks. That's just the way it is.

It is changing nowadays because Women are starting to bring Bacon and eggs.
Men are starting care about their appearance more.