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View Poll Results: Guys, would you like your lady to be Bisexual?
OMG yes!!! 59 30.89%
Maybe 36 18.85%
No! 86 45.03%
Lemme vote!!! 10 5.24%
Voters: 191. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 02-20-2008, 05:24 PM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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Wow...I am straight!
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Old 02-20-2008, 05:28 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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TRMC - I do know what your saying and understand completely.

But my post was meant I guess for people who are "participating" with the same sex. What man (that is the men that are into this) would want to have a three-way and not have the two girls interact with each other. I mean I find it hard to believe that people have a three way without everyone participating with each other.
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Old 02-20-2008, 05:29 PM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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See...it's all so confusing. I like the simpleness of being straight.
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Old 02-20-2008, 05:32 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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See...it's all so confusing. I like the simpleness of being straight.
Rance you are killin me here!! LOL

You are just like my husband. I brought up the three-way thing a few years ago (jokingly, mind you - I am not attrated to woman in the least bit, ugh) but anyway, he did not take it very well. Cheating is f#$#ing cheating, not matter with a man or woman. I was only joking jeez!!! LOL
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Old 02-20-2008, 05:33 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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Oh Rance, give in already, you know you want to!
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Old 02-20-2008, 10:28 PM
 
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I have trouble with the concept of being gay/bi/lesbian. I cannot fathom how anyone can be sexually attracted to a member of the same sex. Or both sex's. It's way over my simple minded head and darn near gives me a headache trying to figure it all out. So I don't. But it still amazes me people can be like that.
There's really no difference...people are drawn to people for so many reasons, and for relationships that last, it's far, far more about the person's soul, so to speak, than gender. I can see how it would be the sexual part that would baffle you. But sexual attraction is weird and tricky like that for everyone, from what I can see. Personally, I'm turned off by any sex (straight, gay, whatever) if it's isn't in the context of a committed, loving relationship. The idea of doing it under other circumstances doesn't make any sense to me, but to each his own as long as it isn't hurting people.

I guess I'm not supposed to answer the question because I'm not a guy, but I'm going to ignore that technicality. When I was younger, I would've said I didn't want to date a bisexual person because I didn't trust the whole concept--thought the person would need gratification of some kind from both sexes and would have extra difficulties being monogamous. Now I understand that if a person can't be monogamous, it has nothing to do with orientation and everything to do with that person's personality and the way she he or she operates and views romantic relationships.
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Old 02-20-2008, 10:37 PM
 
Location: southern california
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so you are saying bisexual means somebody thats a wanabe but doesn't?
just thinks about sex?
and how do i feel about that person ?
just fine. go for it.
thinking is the best way to travel
(beatles)
its 100% safe sex.
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Old 02-20-2008, 10:39 PM
 
Location: Marshall-Shadeland, Pittsburgh, PA
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Sheesh! As a gay male I'm secretly wishing a lot of the straight guys on my campus were closet bisexual. Sigh, one can dream, can't he?! LOL!
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Old 02-21-2008, 10:36 AM
 
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Sheesh! As a gay male I'm secretly wishing a lot of the straight guys on my campus were closet bisexual. Sigh, one can dream, can't he?! LOL!
Oi! You should live where I live. My Apt. building is full of very attractive college guys. I'm 31 and out of the closet. Many of the guys (straight, or at least straight identifying) have expressed their desire to "experiement" with me 'cuz I make them feel safe. I won't tell you what I have or haven't done or with who; but let's just say they'll have to blow up my building before I ever move out!!!
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Old 02-21-2008, 10:42 AM
 
Location: Ocean Shores, WA
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Many of the guys (straight, or at least straight identifying) have expressed their desire to "experiement" with me..
How much experimenting does it take before those "straight" guys realize that they aren't?
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