Guys, would you like your lady to be Bisexual? (dating, marry, family)
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I am sure your homosexual friends appreciate such an enlightened attitude.
oh stop with the sarcasim...just because I feel one way doesn't make me right and them wrong, or visa versa, it is my opinion...and I can tell you true...if I found out my son or daughter indulged in such things, it would really hurt deeply...
so don't try and hijack the issue with my opinon or beliefs in homosexuality...that is not the issue here...someone asked and I replied...it's how I feel and what I believe....sorry it doesn't meet with your approval....
but that is who I am, and I stand by my personal convictions, my beliefs....
they asked....what, did you think everyone was going to come into this thread and chime in..."Why that is perfectly all right dear...you do with your body exactly what you wish and to heck with the feelings of everyone else?
maybe I am judgmental about this topic...but, on this, I won't feel badly about it. It's my culture, how I was raised to believe....I also believe human beings are not animals...and even though, a lot of people will not even attempt to come into this conversation and voice their opinions, I do know, there are still, fortunately, a lot of people out there who have respect for themselves. Even animals know better....just because some of you were involved in a threesome or more, doesn't make it right...my goodness, we're human beings who are supposed to display some morals and respect for ourselves.
This reminds me of a neighbor...they labored hard to raise their grand children and did without. The grandfather had M.S. bad. One of their grand daughters has had now, 5 children out of wed lock, and has given the children up for adoption...and she still doesn't get how much she has hurt them...to the core.
I wonder, how all your parents would feel if you told them what you have done. Yanno, what you do, the decissions you make, how you act, isn't only about you...your actions affect so many others....and you should think about that.
Yes, it's easy to use a screen name and admit that you've done what you've done...but, seriously...I wouldn't want any man, in my life who indulged themselves so freely.
Just my opinion and thoughts....
and yes, you should be ashamed, wait till you have your own children...and can you imagine how badly it would hurt some fathers if they knew there daughters behaved so friviously.
That's just how I see it. It would cut me deep to know my son engaged in such....it isn't always about YOU.
Best Regards
Creme
Your kidding right? My devoted relationship with my husband isnt up for discussion, neither are my kids. But after 19 years of marriage I can tell you its like we are still on our honeymoon-take it and tear it up and down as you see fit.
Cuz no one out there thinks people can be marreid and actually happy and in love and grow old together anymore.....
That. I am bi? is who I am not a big deal, just as you are straight and not a big deal to me. No post here did I ever say being bi- was about indulging so freely that you lose site of everything relavent in life..so I am not sure where you got the one from.
Ashamed? guilty? oh h**l no. Good grief college was college and at that time is was all about me and yes my parents know I am Bi, and there was a talk and you know what? THEY LOVE ME ANYWAY. and they are proud of me and who I am and what I have done with the life they have given me.
Not that I need to justify it for you.
PS there is a HUGE like grand canyons difference from my life and the neighbors who raised those 5 kids. so dont even try and compare it doesnt fly.
Your kidding right? My devoted relationship with my husband isnt up for discussion, neither are my kids. But after 19 years of marriage I can tell you its like we are still on our honeymoon-take it and tear it up and down as you see fit.
Cuz no one out there thinks people can be marreid and actually happy and in love and grow old together anymore.....
That. I am bi? is who I am not a big deal, just as you are straight and not a big deal to me. No post here did I ever say being bi- was about indulging so freely that you lose site of everything relavent in life..so I am not sure where you got the one from.
Ashamed? guilty? oh h**l no. Good grief college was college and at that time is was all about me and yes my parents know I am Bi, and there was a talk and you know what? THEY LOVE ME ANYWAY. and they are proud of me and who I am and what I have done with the life they have given me.
Not that I need to justify it for you.
PS there is a HUGE like grand canyons difference from my life and the neighbors who raised those 5 kids. so dont even try and compare it doesnt fly.
I'm sorry, I didn't try and compare your life to my neighbors....I was trying to point out how the actions of children can crush a parent's heart.....
I'm not angry at you either, and no, you never had to come back on and justify your actions to me, least of all people...
but what you must do is understand, we don't all agree on things...doesn't make me right or you wrong...it's how we believe, and what we believe in....
I once compromised my beliefs, even feelings, so that others could be happy...I won't ever do that again....so, now more then ever, I'm cut and dry and very to the point...(was raised with boys) Please, don't take anything so personal....who cares what I think, really?
and I never asked you to discuss your marriage, your kids or otherwise...but remember, when you put yourself out there, your going to get feedback, and it may not always be what you want or like, and people, as it is, human nature are going to judge, regardless....you could be the most astute angel, and people would still judge you. If your ok with your actions, that is all that matters, right...so, don't worry about what I think, what I believe, or justifying your actions....just take it with a grain of salt. Sounds like your well adjusted and very happy...so, we agree to disagree is all. Maybe another forum, we'll both agree...YOU NEVER KNOW.....
And I still remain, to the original post that being bi, to me, is like cheating....just like a man, who lives with his wife and children, but is homosexual and is cheating....no difference...marriage is fidelity not only to your partner, but to oneself. And if I came in here and said any different, then I would be unloyal to my personal consititution...and that, doesn't fly...and that is something I will defend to the end....
soooooooooooo getting back to the orginal post was a poll on :
Guys, would you like your lady to be bisexual...
Obviously for some its okay and for others its not...
I cant see this post getting positive.....its safe to say we all agree to disagree..
Isnt life wonderful.....
Well, I pretty much agree with trmc07 here. Many of us have simply agreed to disagree. But, at least the thread hasn't really gotton all ugly, mean, and nasty. And, I for one, do appreciate that.
Whatever issues a bisexual partner in a relationship may or may not have are *massively* eclipsed by the issues harbored by the other partner who either immediately thinks "OMG 3SUM!!11!" or immediately assumes that they're going to be cheated on.
This is exactly why we NEED a dedicated LGBT Issues sub-forum on the Politics & Other Controversies forum, even though nobody agrees with me. (Sniffle, sniffle).
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