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It's these idiotic assumptions that drive me ape*****. Men automatically equate bisexual female with a menage a trois. That is thinking in absolutes and life just isn't like that.
Just because I'm bi and in a relationship with a man doesn't automatically equate to a threesome with another woman.
Most bisexuals I know prefer monogamous relationships and do not feel a need to be with both sexes at the same time.
People really owe it to themselves to become educated about the LGBT community before making ridiculous statements like this.
Too bad my so doesn't see it that way.. He thinks that if a girl is bi that there would be a much higher chance of a 3way. Ha ha to him because I didn't think it would be that way so thank you for backing up what I already thought.
It's these idiotic assumptions that drive me ape*****. Men automatically equate bisexual female with a menage a trois. That is thinking in absolutes and life just isn't like that.
Just because I'm bi and in a relationship with a man doesn't automatically equate to a threesome with another woman.
Most bisexuals I know prefer monogamous relationships and do not feel a need to be with both sexes at the same time.
People really owe it to themselves to become educated about the LGBT community before making ridiculous statements like this.
To the majority of men who are into bi-girls, even if they knew there is a zero chance they can participate in their SO's bi interaction, it's still better than nothing. It opens up other things, such as checking out other woman. The thought is perhaps one day they'll be able to watch and/or participate. Everytime you hear her say after meeting someone "She was really nice, I really liked her" while it may not of meant anything, a guy's mind will wander...
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Originally Posted by Blue's Love
Well I would not expect a strait woman to be with another woman. If that is what you want then you should find someone who is already bi.
I understand your point, but people have enough of a problem finding a date with people they feel an attraction to. Furthermore, when is it acceptable to ask if someone is bi? On the first date? "What's your job? That sounds really exciting. Speaking of exciting, are you bi?" (lol) How about after the first time sleeping together, do you say "that was great...I'm just wondering, do you feel about bringing another girl into the mix?" lol
Last edited by TheJagMan; 07-19-2009 at 08:50 AM..
Reason: clarity
What starts out as a three some winds up as two lesbians making out while some guy watches,
Without getting too graphic, I can tell you all the good spots are going to be already taken.
I asked my husband to answer, since I am not a guy. He said he has dated bisexual women, and they don't do any more for him than straight ones. The whole idea that they will invite a pretty friend over for a threesome leads to many disappointing evenings.
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