Guys, would you like your lady to be Bisexual? (married, women, single) - Relationships -Dating, marriage, boyfriends, girlfriends, men, women, friends, attraction ... - City-Data Forum

crystalblue · 01-24-2008, 07:03 AM

Study: Bisexuality in women isnâ€™t a phase - Sexual health - MSNBC.com

I'm thinking that would be the coolest thing ever...

Pragmaniac · 01-24-2008, 10:59 AM

Single and in a non-serious relationship, YES! Married, no.

DowntownJerseyCity · 01-24-2008, 11:40 AM

No way. I dated a girl who played for both teams in college and yes, it was fun for the first few times, but it got old very quickly. I want to focus all my "energy" on her to make her feel really good.

Jefetio · 01-24-2008, 12:05 PM

It usually seems like I'm in the majority. I would not want my sig other to be bisexual

crystalblue · 01-24-2008, 12:07 PM

man, I would consider that to be the gift that keeps on giving...

Rance · 01-24-2008, 12:53 PM

Absolutely not! I want nothing to do with a woman that would cheat on me. With a male or female I'd still consider it cheating.

crystalblue · 01-24-2008, 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Rance

Absolutely not! I want nothing to do with a woman that would cheat on me. With a male or female I'd still consider it cheating.

never said she was cheating, just that she was Bisexual...

madicarus2000 · 01-24-2008, 01:45 PM

Can I vote both ways?

FindingZen · 01-24-2008, 01:46 PM

Sure, why not!

I'd want to be involved in the decision-making process, not to mention the "main event" itself. There's no way I'd let my lady freelance and then (not) report back to me later.

That said, although I've dated women who happen to be bisexual or "open-minded", we never invited another female into the mix. Maybe we watched a few videos or scoped out some mutual interests together. If that's as far as it ever goes, I can live with that. If it were to ever go further someday, I could live with that too.

Tzaphkiel · 01-24-2008, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by HobokenGuy

No way. I dated a girl who played for both teams in college and yes, it was fun for the first few times, but it got old very quickly. I want to focus all my "energy" on her to make her feel really good.

Bisexual is different from a three-some.

A bisexual can be in a monogamous relationship with a man and never have a threesome.

Same for heterosexuals, they have 3-somes without being bisexual. Just not sure what the original post is getting at: having a 3-some, or just being with a bisexual woman, who found herself sexually attracted/active with men and women.