I'm white and prefer black women than any other ethnicity. Is this narrow minded? (Asian, family)
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It's not a valid reason. Their being black makes them more fun or "family oriented"???
^ That.
Op, nothing about a person's skin tone makes them more "fun" "faith & family oriented" or anything else. If you just like how they look, fine. But don't think that they are more or less anything than anybody else.
I have a preference for black women and I am worried I am being narrow minded as I don't find any other ethnicity of women attractive. Don't get me wrong, I know attractiveness when I see it, but white women just don't do it for me anymore. People will say it's a personal preference, but I should feel attraction to other women also.
One dude I know has a thing for redheads. he will only date redheads or women who are willing to dye their hair red. Now that is limiting. IDK, I guess it's one thing to have a preference and be drawn to certain attributes, but another thing entirely if you exclude women who don't fit that. I've always been more attracted men with dark olive or bronze skin tones, but never to the exclusion of lighter men because concentration of melanin is a superficial reason to date/not date someone, IMO.
It's a preference. Lots of people prefer interracial dating. Not a big deal, long as you're respectful and not shaming anyone. It's like how some only date within their race. Or someone who likes likes to date people of a certain size. or build. Then there's things like religious preferences, etc.
Everyone has got preferences, and only they themselves have to deal with them. If things are working out, great. If not, it's unfortunate. But sometimes not even that, because some are content single, and if they can get their preferences met great, if not, they're cool with staying single or maybe just having casual affairs. If one is unhappy however, then it may be time to compromise a bit. Again, compromise-not "settle."
Is it ok to say that their culture makes them those things?
Is there such a thing as black culture?
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