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Old 07-24-2015, 06:28 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Its your right to be narrow minded. I find black women gorgeous, too, however, I'm not limiting my female preferences.

 
Old 07-24-2015, 06:31 AM
 
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It's not a valid reason. Their being black makes them more fun or "family oriented"???
^ That.

Op, nothing about a person's skin tone makes them more "fun" "faith & family oriented" or anything else. If you just like how they look, fine. But don't think that they are more or less anything than anybody else.
 
Old 07-24-2015, 06:33 AM
 
Location: NoVa
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I don't see a problem with it. We all have preferences. It is not like you are bashing other races, you just have preference towards black women.

I find that women of all races are family oriented. Could be the ones you've encountered may not be, however.
 
Old 07-24-2015, 06:34 AM
 
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It's not a valid reason. Their being black makes them more fun or "family oriented"???
I very much doubt he thinks that. What about culture then? Is it ok to say that their culture makes them those things?
 
Old 07-24-2015, 06:35 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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I have a preference for black women and I am worried I am being narrow minded as I don't find any other ethnicity of women attractive. Don't get me wrong, I know attractiveness when I see it, but white women just don't do it for me anymore. People will say it's a personal preference, but I should feel attraction to other women also.
One dude I know has a thing for redheads. he will only date redheads or women who are willing to dye their hair red. Now that is limiting. IDK, I guess it's one thing to have a preference and be drawn to certain attributes, but another thing entirely if you exclude women who don't fit that. I've always been more attracted men with dark olive or bronze skin tones, but never to the exclusion of lighter men because concentration of melanin is a superficial reason to date/not date someone, IMO.
 
Old 07-24-2015, 06:36 AM
 
Location: Earth
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It's a preference. Lots of people prefer interracial dating. Not a big deal, long as you're respectful and not shaming anyone. It's like how some only date within their race. Or someone who likes likes to date people of a certain size. or build. Then there's things like religious preferences, etc.

Everyone has got preferences, and only they themselves have to deal with them. If things are working out, great. If not, it's unfortunate. But sometimes not even that, because some are content single, and if they can get their preferences met great, if not, they're cool with staying single or maybe just having casual affairs. If one is unhappy however, then it may be time to compromise a bit. Again, compromise-not "settle."
 
Old 07-24-2015, 06:37 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I very much doubt he thinks that.
He said that. I quoted it.
 
Old 07-24-2015, 06:38 AM
 
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He said that. I quoted it.
So when he said black, he was referring only to the color? Is there such a thing as black culture?
 
Old 07-24-2015, 06:39 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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So when he said black, he was referring only to the color? Is there such a thing as black culture?
Why don't you just say what you want to say.
 
Old 07-24-2015, 06:41 AM
 
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Why don't you just say what you want to say.
I did. It was a question. Two in fact.

Is it ok to say that their culture makes them those things?

Is there such a thing as black culture?
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